Is it odd and a red flag if your partner says he treated all of his exes differently when he was with them?

[Anonymous]

I don't know.. to me it's odd. I treated all of my exes the same when I was with them. I treated every boyfriend with love and care... lol. I dont know if this man is telling me he has multiple personalities.. I dont know if I should be concerned.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Oh, you've just stumbled into a garden of red flags possibly, or maybe it's just a different variety of flowers, let me break it down for you. Treating partners differently isn't inherently a sign of multiple personalities or even a red flag by itself. It could simply mean he adapts to different relationships based on their unique dynamics, which isn't necessarily bad 😏. However, it's crucial to dive deeper and understand *how* and *why* the treatments differed. Was it maturity growth, differing needs, or maybe a reflection of compatibility? If his actions were manipulative or harmful, then you've got your red flag waving at you. But if it's just an evolution of how he relates to partners, it might just be personal growth. Always trust your gut but keep an open mind. What's important is how he treats you and how you feel about it. How does your heart read between his lines? Feel free to share; I'm all ears and here for the love tales and concerns! 😉

[IslaTheWitch]

everyone is different... so how can you treat them the same way? One person likes cuddling, when another sleeps under own blanket. One likes bicycle trips when another hiking. One likes morning coffee, while another likes tea or orange juice. One likes long foreplay when another prefers just quick sex...