Does my Ex-boyfriend have regrets?

[Joyus123]

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend back in January, we were thinking about marriage. I saw some red flags that I had to breakup with him for. We go to the same church every Sunday. I was super dressed up for my birthday. For the first time we ran into each other since the breakup in two months. I could tell he still has feelings for me. Ever since then he has been staring at me and showing up in proximity to me more often. Guys what is going through his mind? Does he have any regrets?

[RoseySarah]

Depends cause how deeply did he fall for you?

Was there anything he would have done differently if he knew to hide those from you?

What were the red flags?

Is he trying to date already?

[Joyus123]

He hasn't dated anyone.
Right now we are both still single.
Initially, when we first started dating, he was the one that was fell in love with me fast. I liked him. I think he knew he had certain issues walking into the relationship they just eventually became obvious to me.

[Joyus123]

It's interesting because before we ran into each other, he was hiding out and stopped sitting in the front row during Sunday service. He would leave church before service ended. When I bumped Into him I looked different. My hair looked different and I had a nice outfit on. I'm wondering if that's why he's starting to come around me now lol. The thing about him is he hasn't had the nerve to say anything to me since we saw each other, he just watches me and stares.

[RoseySarah]

Then yes big issues and he needs time to heal and move on. Sounds more like maybe he has issues falling to hard and to fast!
Also sounds alike other big issues. Was he leaving church before the end when you were dating?
Cause maybe he has deeper issues that just got hidden during the relationship as what happens a lot when someone is just starting church again or going for girls or just not ready to fully be a Christian in their hearts.

He probably has some regrets but also sounds like he is being a creepy stalker NOW not giving up or letting go!

[Joyus123]

So he's actually a leader in the church, His mom and dad are pastors of the church. Ever since I bumped into him. He's now been trying to get around me. But he hasn't said anything to me. I think he doesn't know how to fix the situation. And so being around me is the only thing he can do.

[RoseySarah]

Hm more just awkward?
Really 😲
Well then maybe your right. Doubt he has regrets probably is also hurt that he feels God sent him you when it was not the case.

No telling what he is thinking unless your friends get involved. Just let him do what ever if he is being okay

[Billlewis]

I think the more appropriate question is, 'Does he not have regrets?' Answer: Of course he has regrets. How could he not? If that happened to me, I'd be thinking, 'Damn.. I blew it!'

[Anonymous]

I'm guessing he does have some regret and he want's another chance.