Search Results: what girls want to hear

This is a topic that gauged my interest as of late. I feel like this is a thing that should be addressed more often. I have heard from many now that they feel expected by society to look a certain way because of the entertainment industry. A look, that perhaps 1% of the population has, and most of the time, is not achieved in a way that's healthy, or natural. This eventually leads to eating disorders and what not, in many women.

I think men have an easier time pushing away these insecurities for whatever reason that may be. Even though on occasion I feel like people expect me to have a body like Chris Hemsworth when I take my shirt off at the beach, but in a minute or two I forget all about it and enjoy the ocean. But I feel like women have a harder time letting go of these thoughts and obsess over them even, which may or may not be due to biological reasons.

I wanted to make this poll just to kind of see where your thoughts lie regarding this topic, and whether it really is as widespread as some sources claim it to be.

Please be honest about your answer, as it might help other girls out there to know that they are not as alone as they thought in this matter.

Also feel free to elaborate on any further feelings you'd want to share.

For me that feels like it is the case despite being one and the same body. Basically it goes like this.

Me: I love girls, they are so nice.

Brain: They want your money!

Me: Shut up brain! It's not true and you know it.

Brain: It's not my fault you kept watching so many gold digger videos. I am reflecting what you were doing.

Me: (raises both palms before my head) OK, fair enough, there's no denying in that. But please enough is enough already. Besides there were girls, who weren't impressed by expensive cars and gifts and they kept being with the same guy.

Brain: Hah! We'll see about that. Get a girlfriend and prove me wrong. Then maybe I will give it a rest.

Me: 😓 If only it was so easy and you're driving a hard bargain.

Brain: It's a fair deal. Just think about it and get motivated. Show me they're not interested in your money and i will reconsider what I'll give you as random thoughts.

So yeah, obviously i will not tell girls nor a girlfriend, that this is what goes on in my head. It will scare them away, they'll think, that i think, that they are gold diggers and that will just make them fume of anger and it's generally not nice to hear about it. I'm better than that. Unless she's really open minded, understanding, very curious and/or a psychotherapist. I'm probably a bit crazy but aren't we all?

Well she's 22, a virgin, black like me, no student loan debt, likes anime and comic books, is into art, no guy best friends or ex's, wants to have kids, wants to be a stay at home wife, likes that I make music, and believes in God but (not in the annoying way where you can't swear or something). She's around a 7 and is super lowkey and doesn't look for attention from random dudes.

I'm going to date her a bit more, and I'm in a position in which I can provide for a family. I might become a semi celebrity pretty soon though. Do you think I should go for a celebrity girl? Might be cool but a bit of a hassle. I just don't want to pass up a good opportunity.

I hear the celebrity culture can be very degenerate and you won't be able to see your partner much either.. I mean that might be tough. Let me know.