Search Results: ways to be happy

I give up on finding a girlfriend, is that good?

Here are the reasons - - Girls never ask me out - Girls never go out of their way to talk to me - Girls never ask for my number - Im too scared to ask girls out or talk to girls I get out of the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can I accept things he does & be happy?

Me & my boyfriend have conversations/discussions about the same thing. Mainly because he likes other girls pics. I’ve let him know how it makes me feel & I find it disrespectful. Not to long ago I saw girls snap him but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I make him fear losing me just a little?

My boyfriend has been kind of inconsistent lately when he's even more consistent with his friends! He's more afraid of losing his friends than he is of losing me and I'm happy that I make him feel that safe but it's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend just dumped me and I’ve blocked him have I done the right thing?

32 f and 30 m have been together for 5 months and had a very happy relationship. 3 months into our relationship we had a miscarriage. My boyfriend liked to drink and take substances quite regularly which I wasn’t happy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why has my friend started to flirt with me so much?

My friend is flirtatious. She took me out a few weeks back and I told her I wanted her to flirt with me ( we’re both bi and had been drinking ) and she quickly said “bet” and said I was so fucking pretty and that my laugh...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it normal that I am not interested or unable to commit to a serious long term relationship?

I’m a 28 year old woman I’m currently in a relationship I can’t do it. I have a hard time committing to someone. I don’t like the Long phone calls , texting constantly seeing him almost everyday, it feel like a burden to...

JanetMaree

Xper 5 Age: 30

Am I infatuated?

I have been friends with a guy for over 1 year, I'm very thankful for our friendship and I couldn't ask for anything more. We've supported each other through our ups and downs, and Have comforted each other in times when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did she lost feeling when she says “if I’m being honest, I had a lot of fun too, I’m just not in the spot/space to continue/pursue anything”?

I hung out with this girl and we actually had a girl great time. Talked for 2 hours straight, no awkward pauses, same energy and how we talk, and agreed to hanging out again. First time I fell in love with a girl. After...

Jjboy500

Xper 4 Age: 23

What does it mean when a girl says “ if I’m being honest, I had a lot of fun too, I’m just not in the spot/space to pursue or continue anything?

I hung out with this girl and we actually had a girl great time. Talked for 2 hours straight, no awkward pauses, same energy and how we talk, and agreed to hanging out again. After the hangout I said I had a great time...

Jjboy500

Xper 4 Age: 23

Break Up & Divorce

My ex wants to change his ways to make us work, this includes putting me first and cutting down on drinks and other substances. Do I give us a chance?

Apart from the above we had a happy relationship but I was sick of him putting his friends first and always wanting to drink and do other substances. He has told me how happy he was with me and now he wants to change his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She said she's comfortable to be herself around me. Does she like me?

The last time we met she wasn't feeling like sunshine so she wasn't her happy go lucky self. Why would she even reveal that to me? Why would a woman feel comfortable enough for that? Is this the friendzone direction? Or...

PineappledPizza

Xper 3 Age: 38

Should I ask someone if they would be interested in seeing each other again even if we haven’t talked in 3 months?

Sorry for the long explanation. I met someone on a dating app and we really hit it off and had been seeing each other for about a month. During this period he had told me that he was in the process of looking for a new...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

My Boyfriend And Female Friends, Is This Ok?

I 20(F) have a boyfriend 22 who I've been with for a year now, we worked together then moved on to studying, while working it had this other female co-worker that he would hang around a lot where other people also thought...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

Why do I want to just live on autopilot but not die?

I want to live my life on autopilot. i dont want to die, but i dont want to experience and enjoy life either. every now and then i would believe that life is just a checklist that i need to complete; be born, do primary...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why are women prone to hating themselves?

The way mental health problems manifest with women is just so different and foreign to me. Cutting themselves , getting back into bad relationships that they know will never work out just because they fulfill some kind of...

Lynx122

Master Age: 36

Is this strange behaviour?

so I worked with a girl for a week as she was stationed in my job for a week as we were short staffed. I worked in the bank. During that week we really got on well and we are both the same age (24). We worked very closely...

Anonymous

(25-29)