My ex wants to change his ways to make us work, this includes putting me first and cutting down on drinks and other substances. Do I give us a chance?

[Anonymous]

Apart from the above we had a happy relationship but I was sick of him putting his friends first and always wanting to drink and do other substances. He has told me how happy he was with me and now he wants to change his ways.

[HippoDino]

Its easy to say things, harder to do. Let him prove to you he means it by waiting and seeing if he can actually stay clean for months. Make him earn you, dont give him yourself just because he tells you he will improve.

[Blueeyes81]

The best predictor of the future is the past.

[Nikki1989]

People can change, it just doesn't happen very often.

[Shamalien]

People can change…it’s up to you if you wanna risk it