32 f and 30 m have been together for 5 months and had a very happy relationship. 3 months into our relationship we had a miscarriage. My boyfriend liked to drink and take substances quite regularly which I wasn’t happy about, my rule was that I didn’t want it around me.
I feel he has always put his friends first and never wanted to do things with me and I have done absolutely everything for him! He knows I have treated him so well and been nothing but good to him.
last weekend I was unwell at his house and had to drag myself out for my best friends bday as I was out my boyfriend was on drugs with his friends over and didn’t want me to come back even though I had everything at his house, I told him I was on my way. We had a huge row he told me he wanted to compromise and us move on from this.
The next morning he’s crying because when I’m 34 I want to be settled down and he knows he won’t be at that stage and we should just split up now! I met up with him today to get my things back and he just has no fight for me, doesn’t want to put me first and wants to keep his lifestyle of drinking and always being with his friends etc.
Im absolutely devestated but there’s nothing I can do! I have done everything for him and he doesn’t even want to think or put me first at times!
