Sorry for the long explanation. I met someone on a dating app and we really hit it off and had been seeing each other for about a month. During this period he had told me that he was in the process of looking for a new job including out of state. One day he texts me and lets me know that he got the job out of state and was seriously considering taking it because it was a great opportunity for him. I felt very conflicted at the time and told him that I didn’t really feel like I was in a position to tell him what to do but that I really liked him and was happy with his decision either way. He was very sweet and told me he liked me as well and apologized for how everything ended up happening and we basically said our goodbyes over text. Although I never got his number we never ‘unmatched’ on the app and a few months later I decided to message him again to ask him how his new job was going. We talked for a day or two and the conversation came to a natural end. I’ve tried to go out with other people since then but I can’t help but think back to this guy and I hate that I’ve been holding myself back because I really feel like if he never left, we could’ve had a good relationship together. I want to text him again near Thanksgiving to ask him if he’s still interested and if he would like to meet up (his family lives in the state I’m living in). If he doesn’t want to, I would be okay with that but I just want to know if we would have another shot together. I just need some guidance here and would like to know if what I’m thinking is wrong
Should I ask someone if they would be interested in seeing each other again even if we haven’t talked in 3 months?
