I give up on finding a girlfriend, is that good?

[Anonymous]

Here are the reasons -

- Girls never ask me out

- Girls never go out of their way to talk to me

- Girls never ask for my number

- Im too scared to ask girls out or talk to girls


I get out of the house and go to the mall and community college, still no girls try to talk to me.

I will just have to be happy being a virgin and being bitter

[Angelo75]

Maybe u're not being natural but tense.

Try first to befriend a couple of girls. To do that, just try to have conversation like you would have with one of your buddies. But do NOT talk about anything sexual or anything about guys/girls.
Try picking topics that there is a high chance that both guys and girls like.
- Where you'd like to travel? (and why)
- Whats your favorite food. And try to figure out why you love that food. (just saying it "it taste good" isn't enough)
- Ask for her favorite food. And try to make her think what specific detail she likes about that food.
- Talk about what you'd like to do next year-summer.
- Talk about what you think the weather is becomming.
Constantly be asking also about their ideas about such questions.

Try talking about topics which doesn't necessarily become a fight/discussion or political issue.
But keep telling urself in the head "i am talking to JUST A GUY-buddy".

That could help you feel more relaxed around girls.
Then try to start finding out what girls like to talk about on average.
And when they talk, just listen... listen... listen... and (guess what)... listen.

After getting to know what they think and want, you check which aligns more with you. If she's single, try spending more time with her.

By the way, women at ur age are constantly changing cuz their personality (and yours) won't finish developing for the next couple of years. So dont be surprised if her priority and interests change.

Or look for older girls. They tend to be more stable and easy-going.
And very very VERY good in "certain things". ;-)

[Still-alive]

If thats what truly wanna do.

if you don’t then well… you should probably do some approaching yourself.

[chrissykerdock]

god you sound so much like a girl it isn't funny... please consider dating men... at least try it once... crossdress if you feel it would enhance your chances.

[HelpfulWoman]

" be happy" and "be bitter" in the same sentence. Lmfao

[Asker]

yeah ill have to make myself happy, its gonna be hard knowing im unfuckable

[HelpfulWoman]

if your whole life happiness is based on if you can get laid, and thats by simply hoping girls come onto you, then honestly sounds like a waste of oxygen.

[Asker]

I just want someone to appreciate me for who i am, I am lonely, i want somebody to do something with mostly, its not all for sex

[Billlewis]

Just embrace being celibate and start spoiling women every chance you get.

[Anonymous]

Find Jesus and your life purpose. Then worry about the rest.

[zagor]

If you're 19 you have plenty of time to work it out.

[Nifrayu]

You're only 19. You're way too young to be giving up like this.

[Anonymous]

This just makes me very mad and resentful and bitter

[Ms_Facesitter]

Only if you're happy that way.

[Asker]

im not happy being that way

[Ms_Facesitter]

Then that isn't good. :(

[Asker]

I know most girls ask guys for their numbers

[chrissykerdock]

i never asked a guy for his number

[shades777]

yes its good now go build something like a man