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Guys, I have to celebrate Valentine’s Day early. What kind of room decor and outfit would you like to see your significant other wearing?

My boyfriend and I are celebrating Valentine’s Day this month because he will be out of town for work on the actual day. We are planning to get a nice hotel room with a great view of the city. I want to do something...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Guys, My boyfriend is an experienced lover, but why is he shy with me?

My boyfriend is an experienced lover but when he is with me intimately he gets really shy and nervous. Any idea on why he would get like this around me? I’m not experienced at all, so it really does baffle me.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Girls in relationships, do you ever think about other guys in relationships sexually?

For example: The boyfriend of your best friend. Could he turn you on? Would it be interesting to think about doing something with him (without doing it of course) or is it a no-go?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Holidays

My boyfriend of 3 years didn't text me Merry Christmas. Should I just move on?

I've been with this guy for 3 and a half years now and this Thanksgiving I wished him a Happy Thanksgiving and he only heart reacted to the text. He didn't say it back until the next day. I told him at first I was a...

jennyleigh118

Xper 1 Age: 38

Relationships

Do you like this?

Here is what happened, I discovered a fight, and I discovered a woman and a few guys there, and I also got taught that when you keep on talking to boyfriends girlfriends the boyfriends will throw punches at you or worse...

Lidflipchampion

Xper 1 Age: 28

Dating

How to find a boyfriend?

I escaped a 10 year relationship and now find myself single and completely bewildered and overwhelmed on the dating scene. These dating sites seem hopeless. I’ve been on a few dates and they all end up being losers or...

Moogus

Xper 1 Age: 28

Dating

Do guys get turned off when they hear of their girlfriend’s issues?

I have severe anxiety and depression which I don’t speak much about to my boyfriend. My mom thinks it will turn him off and possibly dump me. My boyfriend and his mom both know I have anxiety and we’ve been together for...

Anastacia1989

Xper 6 Age: 36

I have severe anxiety and depression which I don’t speak much about to my boyfriend. My mom thinks it will turn him off and possibly dump me. My boyfriend and his mom both know I have

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Dating

Guys, Why does he spend time with me and then blame me for not having any time for himself?

My boyfriend comes over and always asks me out and wants to do things when he is in town, since he travels for work. Well every time it gets closer for him to return to work, he starts getting angry with me. He blames me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why does my cousin keep rejecting guys? Doesn’t she realize that time is ticking?

My cousin is 38 (will be 39 next year) and hasn’t dated since she was 23. 23! Are you kidding me? I know it’s her life but she doesn’t always chose the best men. Most of the men she dated were douchbags. She told me her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I've stopped being interested in having a relationship with women and only look for sex because of the dual nature of modern women?

I've finally realized the disgusting nature of women, putting men into little boxes like boyfriend type so I'll make him wait to test him vs hot guy at a club so let's f in the car after 20 minutes. I'm done playing games...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How can you tell you’re being lovebombed?

Recently met this guy who I met on Bumble. He sent me a compliment that I saw before I matched with him telling me that I was gorgeous. I thought he was attractive too so I matched and turns out we like all the same...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is it weird for a guy to be obsessed with a certain culture/country?

Been dating my boyfriend for a while now and I realize that he’s weirdly obsessed with China and the Chinese culture. He finds their history and culture fascinating (I can understand) but then he would always watch...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Are men more insecure when the woman they are dating/married to makes more money then them or vice versa?

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.

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Dating

Boyfriend teases and picks on me too much? *Fart story and also, share your own?

He is very playful and fun to be around. Love him deeply and dearly and we never stop laughing together and having a great time! It's like having a best friend and boyfriend in one. But the other day he kept teasing me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is it my ex is so obsessed?

Okay a little back story. I broke up with this guy about the beginning on this year and I told him that it just isn’t working out and I’ve lost feelings. He got mad and tried to use my photos and blackmail me, to make me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Guys, How do I move pass girl send me screenshots of my boyfriend cheating?

So this girl sent me screenshots of months and months conversation between her and my boyfriend. Well I saw the SAME conversations and call history on his phone. When I asked him about it , he just told me he doesn't know...

graffe87

Xper 1 Age: 38

Family & Friends

I feel so alone and hurt tonight. I'm also reconsidering my relationship. Can someone just be there for me please?

Met the kindest guy in March and started dating in May. We are perfect together but he's very close to his extended family and has lots of friends. It's been hard to feel accepted into his family and his friend group but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend cheated on me being drunk at the party and he’s not contacting me anymore. What the hell that means?

So here is the story. Me (F35) and him (M45). My boyfriend went to a party with his friends, we exchanged last messages at 11pm, after which he disappeared until 10am. First he just never picked up the phone and then his...

Denali1810

Xper 1 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

Ladies, what's the point of smiling and staring at a guy if you're taken or not interested?

The last couple of months have been very weird to me, as I've seen these two different girls in my neighborhood. Every time I see one of them they stare at me and give me that 'approach me' look, and sometimes they even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do some stay in relationships with people they never want to marry?

I knew a guy who was in a relationship with his girlfriend for 5 long years. He got her pregnant in the 6th yr, so he had to marry her. 4 years later, they are divorced. He admitted that he never wanted to marry her, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)