Dating

How can you tell you’re being lovebombed?

Recently met this guy who I met on Bumble. He sent me a compliment that I saw before I matched with him telling me that I was gorgeous. I thought he was attractive too so I matched and turns out we like all the same things. Anime, both visual artists, videos games, and musicians.


He told me he was looking for something long term as am I, but we agreed to take things slow. he's a huge women’s advocate for respecting consent and was raised by older married parents so he’s more old school in his style. On top of all of that he compliments a lot and tells me I’m by far the most beautiful woman he’s dated and he’s excited for us to date given all our commonalities. So far I don’t have any red flags except for the fact all I see are green flags. He says he has faith we’ll make it to a relationship in the midst of taking it slow.

I guess I’m just apprehensive about all of the good and I’m scared of what will be the bad that I have to find out about.. my last boyfriend turned out the same then I found out he was on the brink of homelessness and had an open case.

Sometimes it’s like you just have to wait it out and see

How can you tell you’re being lovebombed?
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