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What does it really mean when a woman suddenly wants to " Be Alone " ?
We where planning to marry eventually. Last year i caught her going to dating sites, okok im kinda of computer guy , well more than kinda so i watched the proxy at home and followed the logs, well dating sites are not the...
MrEnigma1122
Xper 1 Age: 56 What Is a Racist?
Everyone’s definition of the word ‘racist’ is different, making the term mostly meaningless. I’m not a racist by MY definition, which, in the end, is all that matters to me, anyway. Maybe you have asked yourself, “What...
Dargil
Master Age: 36 Guys, if a girl you met through sport added you on Insta, will you accept it?
I first met him through volleyball games. At the start, our interactions were small, but during tournaments he sometimes became the setter. He would ask me softly if the ball was okay, encourage me when I was afraid to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it ironic that I'm only strong-willed (even vengeful) if threatened or someone tries to beat me into submission?
I've noticed this personality within me ever since I was a kid. My parents always spoke to me in harsh tones and were old-school. They never tried other, softer approaches first. It was always the harsher one as first and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don’t women chase men the way men are expected to chase women?
I’ve always noticed that in dating and relationships, there seems to be this unspoken rule: men are the ones who need to make the first move, approach, initiate conversations, ask for numbers, plan the dates, and...
Anonymous
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Anonymous
(36-45) Adulthood: What I've found out so far in my own journey
Adulthood: what? Adulthood is defined differently and consists of different components depending on who you ask. However, more or less directly, all fingers point in a few of the same directions. These directions are...
TalkWithoutSpeaking
Xper 6 Age: 29 Is my friend toxic?
We've joined a research lab in July. I met her at the day of our admission and since we are residential scholars all the first year female scholars live in the same apartment (it's a fully funded program and our...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girl calls you bro definitely friend zone right?
I first ask if I could work with her cause the boss sent me and some people like to work alone she says yes. Just started talking she started it basically then went quiet but when I noticed the awkward silence I just...
Anonymous
(25-29) Told me from the start wasn't ready for a relationship, when I asked if I should fall back cause I was catching feelings she said that would hurt?
Met this girl through a friend first night talking we talked for 5 hours on the phone. She stayed the night after a week of talking on the phone every night for hours, two nights in a row and we did sleep together, a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think I'm a terrible person?
My brother and I own a mobile home. I only lived in it for a year and my brother lived in it for 7. When I lived in it, the windows leaked. My brother caulked them, and they don't leak anymore, but caulking will only do...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Why does this girl kept ragging on me for dating my ex boyfriend?
My ex and I only dated for three months and it didn’t work out. Well. Nobody felt bad for me because I knew how the guy was. The thing that was messed up was it was a friend’s ex boyfriend. I know, messed up. She dated...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does he give me such prolonged eye contact?
there is a cute professor at my school. He is a tall, white , handsome man. We are not familiar with each other at all. He has never taught me. We have never talked. Last year, he was getting off of work, we bumped into...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does my future sister-in-law's family dislike me?
Asking about it here because I'm confused. My elder brother has recently been informally engaged to his fiancé and they're planning to marry in the first half of 2026. We are two siblings and I'm 7.5 years younger than my...
Anonymous
(18-24) I’m afraid I might have colon cancer. What should I do?
I’m a 19 y/o female with no family history of colon cancer. A few days ago, I noticed blood on my stool. It was bright red and about the size of a pea. I checked, and there was no blood anywhere else, just at that spot....
Anonymous
(18-24) I was starting to like this guy, but he's scaring me, Why won't he listen?
Y'all I'm really just on here to vent, so please be nice to me. I started talking to this guy, and at first everything seemed fine, but then I noticed a change in his behavior, a scary change. Being that we just started...
HeyimRae90
Xper 1 Age: 35 Does every guy have the same purpose for Snapchat?
For example, like I talked to my man on Snapchat every single day, but we’ve also had a streak for nearly 800 days… But I also wonder if he actually has guy friends he talks to on there or if it has to be other women...
Noteboat01
Xper 1 Age: 28 When old love makes us sink…
There are loves that lift us and then there are the ones that drown us slowly. We don’t always notice it at first. An old bad love doesn’t come back into our lives with fireworks. It sneaks in quietly, in the space...
To the women with boyfriends?
To the women with boyfriends. So this girl during training class was eyeing me for a couple of times. Very attractive woman and I thought nah she'll never notice me. I thought maybe late 20s early 30s. Very vintage...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are younger men attracted to older women? Seeking some perspective?
I'm 41, but I look younger thanks to good genes and staying fit. I'm a mom to two amazing girls under 9, and although I'm separated, I carry myself with a joyful, confident, and sassy energy. Lately, I've noticed that I'm...
Tulipep1
Xper 3 Age: 42 