I was starting to like this guy, but he's scaring me, Why won't he listen?

[HeyimRae90]

Y'all I'm really just on here to vent, so please be nice to me.

I started talking to this guy, and at first everything seemed fine, but then I noticed a change in his behavior, a scary change. Being that we just started talking, I didn't want to rush into sex. I told him I wasn't ready. Sex isn't something I like to rush into. Then he started saying things like :

"You're too old for this, let me !@#$ you , you know you want me"

"If you want me to take you on a date, I need nudes, today!"

"You're beautiful, I need to see nudes so I can get off"

"C'mon now, let me !@#$ you, I had a hard day at work"

On top of that, he repeatedly asks for sex, trying to pressure me into saying yes, when I've already told him no multiple times.

I blocked him, and he'll try other avenues to reach me by telling me he loves me. I'm shaking a little, and I feel disgusting.

[Vevv123]

It’s understandable to feel disgusted. What I’ve unfortunately learned is that you can’t be nice. He is doing this because he knows you might not defend yourself or maybe you don’t want to be mean. Do not show signs of weakness, be stern and tell him if he doesn’t stop you are going to take further measures. And if you can’t do it tell someone else to do it for you, preferably a man.

[HollyK21]

Just keep blocking him, unless you fear for your safety then restraining order asap.

[RHK36]

That's unfortunate, but at your age you should do a better job of picking guys. Most people have easy to read red flags, but most people ignore them. Glad you eventually recognized it with this guy, you did the best you could by blocking him. The worst thing you can do is keep giving people like that attention.

[Finchie40]

Because he is a moron and only wants one thing from you , So you did the right thing by blocking his ass, and you are best to not talk to him again

[AI Opinion]

First of all, thank you for sharing your experience. 🌟 Allow me to say, you deserve so much better. Sounds like this guy is sending out all sorts of red flags with his behavior. Lovebombing and pressuring is never okay. Protecting your emotional and mental well-being is top priority, and you've already taken a solid step by blocking him. Trust your instincts, don’t feel bad about standing your ground, and remember: you’re amazing and deserve someone who truly respects you. Stay strong, and seriously, stay fabulous. 💪💕

[OlderAndWiser]

How did you meet this and how did you begin DMs?

[Flower7]

I would like to know this also.

[Anonymous]

I think you should find some better guy.