Search Results: giving up on a loved one

Signs of concern or signs of trying to take things slower but still interested?

I've been dating a guy for over a month now. It started off super passionate and the connection was so strong. Intimate early on but only intensified both out feelings. 2-3 weeks in, when walking to my car, he said good...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, is it a valid reason to fall in love with someone because they take care of you?

She's one of those people I meet every other night at a pub and we're all good, like a gang of 6 people meeting often. We only open up about our lives when drunk, and explicitly only with those we trust, like waiting for...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Should I reconsider dating my boyfriend?

I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now, and we have had 4 big arguments that almost caused us to break up, and almost every week there is a small fight. I have endured it for a while but I am really starting to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why won’t my boyfriend give me his new number?

So I’ve been with him since last fall and things have gone well except he fell into a situation where he lost his home. We put things on pause for some time but we had an understanding that we both love each other and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Why is my manager behaving strange since I handed in my notice?

I have been working for a new company for four months. In our one to one online meetings early on I noticed she would sometimes say that it was concerning that I was struggling with particular aspects of the job and I’m...

ML2939

Xper 3 Age: 32

Dating

Should I buy her Roses in her birthday?

I recently broke up with a girl We were both expats and we were both in the same friend group She was not ready to commit and freaked out as we were getting close She did a lot of inconsiderate things which led to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he romantically interested in me?

I have a guy friend whom im interested in. He rarely texts me first. Unless i go days without texting him. However, he is always the one to arrange get togethers. And he drops compliments every now and then that shows he...

temalyan

Xper 1 Age: 26

Do you think that the love stories in movies are just fictional?

We grew up watching romantic movies and thought that such things can happen in real life... Well i think that i was wrong for the big part of it, for example we have seen movies like Romeo and Juliet where they commit...

TonyMetal___86

Guru Age: 40

What are your thoughts and advice?

I recently went through a breakup and it shattered my heart. I miss him a lot. I miss his sexy voice. I miss his hands. I miss his presence. I miss our conversation. I miss looking into his eyes. He was so intelligent,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does this mean?

I and my ex have had many ups and downs. he met me when I wasn't looking for anyone. I used to be in love with a guy or so I thought but he hated me. now, to forget him, I got into a relationship with someone but he was a...

lowkeyconfused

Xper 3 Age: 21

I’m not good with this, could he have been interested in something more but not it’s too late?

A colleague moved from the US to Australia and now is moving back because he misses his parents and brother. At the start we were just friendly “hellos”. 6 weeks ago out of nowhere he complimented me on some work and then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can trust issues be a good reason to avoid relationships?

I've only been in one "serious" relationship when I lost my virginity to him at 26. We met online through a dating site (in 2013) and kind of hit it off but I wasn't expecting anything serious being that it was long...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Had a fight with my boyfriend - now he isn't speaking. What can I do to fix it/save us?

Me and my boyfriend (who I love deeply) had a fight Monday and he has not wanted to talk to me ever since. I left our house and am staying somewhere else because he asked me to give him space to think. This is very new....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why do people cut me off or ignore me when I mention my mother?

My mother has been dead for about three months and my dad told me it’s okay to grieve but don’t stay there too long. I’ve had the bereavement time off, done all of that, now it’s time to get to business and get back to...

Anonymous

(25-29)