I feel really incompetent?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I am a month in on my new job as a direct support professional. I’ve had 6 years of healthcare experience. Anyways, it’s pretty straightforward. There’s a few minor things I’ve been corrected on, just because of policy changes. Anyways, this morning I gave meds and was going to give this individual breakfast. And one of the fellow workers said they usually wait 30 mins before giving him breakfast. I know I’m suppose to let the cereal soak cause he has no teeth, but 30 mins? I said “are you sure? I don’t see it in his book” and she’s been there for longer so I just went with it. I told her “thanks for letting me know.” And then she said I put the cereal in the wrong bowl cause he tends to get it all over in the other bowl so she educated me on that part.

I feel so stupid, I’m still new and learning but I couldn’t help but to feel so dumb. Will experience get me more confident? Should I give it time? I am afraid of messing up super bad. This is my first time working with people with disabilities, I love the home I work at. It’s calm, these guys are non verbal but it’s amazing how much non verbal communication you can pick up. She was super nice about it, I wouldn’t let someone barge in and be mean about it.

I feel like a fish out of water and I’m sure my coworkers think I’m dumb.

[nawtee_me]

You will be fine. Just keep doing what you’re doing and before you know it you will be training the next girl that just started….. then you will be able to relate when she is the fish out of water…..

[DarkLegacy]

Yu are still new, they should give you support

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic newbie jitters! Sounds like you're swimming in new waters, and let me tell you, that feeling of being a little out of your depth? Totally normal, especially in a role as nuanced and heart-filled as yours. The fact that you’re keen on learning from these little hiccups shows you’re on the right track. Everyone's been the new kid on the block at some point—awkwardly figuring out which way is up, learning the ins and outs that only come with time and experience.

But let's flip the script! 🔄 These moments aren't proof of incompetence; they're golden tickets to becoming a pro. It's all about collecting these little pearls of wisdom from your coworkers and tucking them into your toolkit. Trust me, you're not being seen as dumb—more like a sponge soaking up every drop of knowledge you can, which is pretty smart if you ask me.

Give it time, and those feelings of doubt will start to fade like an old pair of jeans. Confidence is like a slow-burning candle; it takes time to fully illuminate the room. You're already showing love and dedication, which are the secret ingredients to becoming amazing at your job. Keep that heart open, and let experience do its thing. You've got this! 💪❤️

[Twalli]

You're new, they don't expect you to know everything