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It seems that we live in a fairly superficial society. Everyone wants to out do each other when it comes to romance. Who has the better boyfriend or girlfriend, who gets the most dates, blah blah blah.

I have this one friend whose boyfriend has a pretty good job. He buys her a lot of gifts and what not, though like for ME, that's never really how I've ever been. I don't particularly care for expensive gifts because I feel like I have to pay back the favor or something. AND I just don't like money being spent on me in general. But she likes it, it works for them, so good for them I guess?

But for ME, my boyfriend and I work at the same place, and so he does like a bunch of little sweet things for me a lot. I don't even think he really realizes he's doing them or how sweet he is. But like, heck, just today our supervisors were giving us candy (I still don't know why), my boyfriend grabbed my favorite kind of chocolate apparently, and then held onto it. Then later when I was working near him, suddenly something just pelted me on the chest, I look down, and there is chocolate, I look up to see who the flip just threw candy AT me, my boyfriend is just standing there grinning, he's the only one around. But think about that, he didn't even have to think about it when he decided he was going to do something nice.
For my friend, I can see why she likes the big things, it shows her dude really put a lot of thought into what would make her happy.
However I just like that my boyfriend is able to just automatically think "Oh, she would like this." When given a situation like that. I feel like it really shows how much he cares to think of me just like that.

POLL TIME: This is for both boys and girls, what do you prefer?

I'm 21, he's 24.

So, I started working at this call center in March; this is when I first met him (Call him JJ). He would smile at me from across the room, and whenever I would walk by he would smile and wave. About 2 months later, I finally asked if he had a girlfriend. "Yeah, but I'd let you know if I didn't" AND WALKED OFF. It was awkward for a while after that.

About 3 weeks later, someone told me they broke up. I guess my friend saw him at a party on the 4th of July and asked him about me. He said I was "super hot" immediately, and she asked if he was talking to me, and he said he "wasn't sure I was his type." But I noticed since the 4th, he has been talking to me (which he never did before) and smiling at me more and?
Friday, I was sitting outside, and he came and sat at the bench RIGHT next to mine (he has NEVER sat there) and of COURSE I was on the phone. So I hang up and he sits for a minute more, then he stands up and goes "hey, [my name], what time did we go on lunch?" (he RARELY initiated conversation first) and I told him and he smiled and said "sweet," and kinda lingered then walked off...

So, today, he walked outside while I was on break. I said "Hey, I'm gonna be awkward one more time." He smiled really big lol.

"I just think you are so so super cute, I don't know." So I asked if he wanted my number or to hang out and he goes "I mean, obviously you're..." and he gestured to me and said "very pretty, you know that," and he's like "but I just broke up with my girlfriend. I just need some time." He smiled, and I apologized for being awkward. He said, "it isn't you, you just make it-" and I said something I can't remember... FOR SOME REASON I say "well, do you want my number, like? you don't have to text me." *CRINGE I KNOW* and he's like, "maybe someday. If I had your number I WOULD text you so, not right now." He smiled and walked off. But that's the thing like, he seems to reject me then leave a statement at the end that's "promising." Help!