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We both know a guy from work. Two weeks ago we ask him to take his bike for a ride but he said sorry no. After that day I see him everywhere I go at work he is kind when he talks to me. I don’t know much about him but he seems as good guy whatever yesterday we saw that guy outside and my boyfriend was making jokes about beating him and I said stop it he is a good boy. He changed his face and asked how do you know that? He is a good guy huh? We talked little bit about him. I told that we talked the other day and he fixed his bike and he was like he told you that? He didn’t tell me anything. When we finish talking about that guy my boyfriend started asking about other guys like do you know him? Is he a good guy huh? And I was surprised because he told me he’s not jealous but now he was being. I said babe I was just kidding I didn’t even know about that guy until we ask for his bike. He laughed and said yeah I’m joking too but he kept asking about himself like do you know me? I’m great and I replied him oh my god yes you’re perfect and the best. Later on the day we were texting and I don't know how many times he used ‘good’ he was texting you’re good girl etc…I texted him ‘didn’t think you’d resent this much about that guy lol’ he texted me back ‘lol I just found it funny’. Why he is acting like that?

I'm in university and there's this guy in my class who I think is super cute but he seems to be more on the awkward or quiet side? Like in a group setting he's definitely more likely to stay on the side and maybe throw out a witty remark but definitely not one of the people who are the center of attention. He's relatively quiet most of the time but obviously more comfortable with people he seems to be better friends with.

I haven't really gotten to talk to him much but usually when we have he's still pretty quiet. Like he'll make some stupid joke occasionally but still relatively quiet. Something I noticed though is that this boy hardlyyy ever gives me any eye contact. He'll stare off at whatever in front of him while we're talking. But while he's walking with another dude or even a girl he's kinda friends with he can look at them just fine. Like if I'm sitting next to my friend he'll look at my friend at talk to them ok but he won't look at me.

The thing is I'm an awkward girl too. Really shy and awkward and can't really find the right words to say. So I can't tell if it's just me making things uncomfortable in general. When we text though (we've only had like a solid 3 convos through text which I initiated) he's really fun and talkative. I felt like it was so natural and fun which doesn't just happen with anyone for me. None of that comes through in real life but I think thats just the awkwardness. I really want to get to know him more but I don't know if I have a shot because he never initiates convo.

Also one time I sent him this dumb Instagram reel that was like "the person with this initial owes you ______". and he responded with something like "maybe sometime but my schedule has been all over the place". Was that just him trying to let me down nicely or is he actually down to hang out? I wanna keep trying to text him but I don't want to bug him if he's busy or just finds me uncomfortable.

If anyone has any advice that would be so great. thanks!