Search Results: approaching a guy or girl

Guys, have you ever approached a random girl in public?

So I was getting my vaccine. I was sitting on a chair, waiting for the nurse. Then a few mins later some guy appears and says "they told me to come here" And I say "they told me that too" Then he said "can I sit next to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Disturbances with age?

Have guys ever been 'turned off,' or ashamed to approach, or keep talking to a girl because of the age difference? Did he ever think like this? Or was the turn-on/ interest greater than the age difference?

Rosexøxø

Guru Age: 23

What 10 warning signs in a guy would you warn girls/women about? If you have a sister, a daughter or even a female friend what would you tell her?

What should she watch out for? When it comes to guys? This could be about when a random guy approaches her or if a potentially problematic guy tries to date her etc.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men call women ugly when they get rejected?

I often hear from friends that men call women ugly after they get rejected. I have never had a man approach me directly since I am an introvert, have just one friend, don't attend parties, and have always been to girls...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Do shy women have their weeks that don't want to talk to their crush?

Is it anxiety related or something else? Do shy girls try to know the guy better via body language and behavior before doing the approach? This is when she had started to talk to you every time and she suddenly does this...

Greateye

Xper 4 Age: 35

Is this a good approach to asking a girl out?

There is a girl at the bar that I’ve seen around, but never really talked to for the past year and a half. I never talked to her because everytime I saw her she gave me a mean scowl. Until recently I brought it up to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you often experience something similar: do you prefer a guy to approach when the two of you are alone?

Inspired by JustNeedToKnow... Ok so I’m mainly asking girls, but If you’re a guy, you can state if girls do either of the below to you as well. I personally would prefer a guy approach me when we’re both alone. But this...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Why do people assume that I am rude?

People just automatically assume that I am rude. I am introverted, socially awkward and struggle to start conversations. But once someone starts the conversation, I am very friendly to them. However, people stare at me,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

When a guy says he is talking with someone and wants to be friends with u but wants to come to the gym with u is he just using me for free gym acess?

I have a huge crush on this really cute guy that I approached first and I started looking for him at school to talk to him during break and lunch. We ate lunch together alone about 3 times and have talked a lot and he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, A girl is interested in you, in what way do you prefer her to approach?

Milkyway46835

Xper 2 Age: 29

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"Why I Push Women Away": How One Man's Personal Revelation Linked Back to His Father's Affair

This is the real-life story of one man, and his journey to discover why he leaves. I listened to this last night, found it very interesting, and thought I'd share it with you today. "Why did I leave?" "Why did I lose...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Why are girls nicer to other girls who hit on them than guys even if they are straight?

I saw this girl hit on another girl today and the one who was getting asked out was so nice about it letting her know how flattered she was but that she’s straight. why are they so much nicer to other women who approach...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a "perfect" girl struggle to have a boyfriend?

My best friend is the perfect girl; she's extremely beautiful, kind, intelligent, funny, etc. But she's the only one in our group of friends to struggle to have a boyfriend. When we go out, all the guys look at her, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he intimated and should I talk to him again for a 4th time or is he disinterested and should I give it up?

I think he might be intimated by me when I went up to him the first 3 times it was asking to see a skill he which might have given off the vibe that I was interested in that trick more than I was him. I don’t know how to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

He’s friendly and looks at me at lot but never talks to me on his own, I’ve started small talk 3 times. He’s too good to give up should I keep trying?

I’ve never been the kind of girl to talk to a guy first but this guy is so funny and smart and incredible I had to. But at this point I’ve gone up to him 3 times and we’ve had good little chats but he never approaches me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, If a guy (stranger) approached you with confidence, a bit of humor and kept the conversation going, would you guys be nervous? How nervous? ?

What would cause you to reject them? Would it be their confidence and humor? Or would it be something else?

Asab33

Xper 1 Age: 24

Girls, Have you ever Approached a Shy Guy and asked him on a date?

Can you tell me what happen if you did.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can you tell me what happen if you did.

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Girl's Behavior

Is she blowing me off or shy?

This girl sometimes acts hot and cold. She would ask me questions when we walk home. "Do you live around here?" And be friendly in classes but she sometimes acts cold and avoids me. She talks to other boys just fine and...

Anonymous

(30-35)