I have a huge crush on this really cute guy that I approached first and I started looking for him at school to talk to him during break and lunch. We ate lunch together alone about 3 times and have talked a lot and he seems to smile at me and semi flirt with me but gives me mixed signals as well. Out of the 3 lunches, for 2 lunches some girl he knows came by out table and started talking with him nonstop and made me feel like he liked her more than me. Yesterday he told me that he heard people say that they thought we were "talking" and said that he was actually talking with someone and kinda said he just wanted to be friends with me and just wanted to let me know. However, before he said this the day before yesterday he said that he wanted to come to my apartment's gym with me to work out. So yesterday I asked him how wad going to the gym with me okay if he was currently interested in another person and that if I were that person I would feel weird. He admitted that it might be weird but said he was still down to go to the gym and join me with my workout. So yesterday we did end up working out together alone for about 2 hours and talked a lot laughed a lot and teased each other a bit. I tried to not be too flirty knowing that he was talking with someone else but he was really showing off his muscles and even flashed his abs. We tried doing an ab workout together and talked to each other while doing planks together and posed in front of the mirror together as well. When we were done he held the gym door open for me when I was leaving the gym and made more small tlak with me until I was close to my home. He kept asking if I were walking home as if he were worried and though he had to walk with me. Then he ended up asking me when I was going to the gym again so that he could come with me and we decided to go again tomorrow. Is this guy just using me for free gym access, he see me as a friend, or unsure if he "likes" me or not and wants to spend more time with me?
When a guy says he is talking with someone and wants to be friends with u but wants to come to the gym with u is he just using me for free gym acess?
