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Hey everyone 👋🤗 I am just looking for thoughts and opinions here if that is okay. Had this guy friend who I worked with, we would always somehow end up alone together but just chat or laugh, he always helped me with everything. On nights out it would always be just us left together, he would always say things that were specific about me like how I would react to things or the way I move. Whenever we were in a group of someone else would be talking he would always look towards me and catch my eye. We used to have our own little jokes and he would sit with his knee touching my knee not moving. He left work and at his leaving lunch I had written he was my og in the card when one of the guys asked him to make a speech he said my og and then gathered himself. People always assumed something was going on with us and I used to be mistaken for being his friend to give you an idea of how close we were. Am I stupid to think there was something there? Well he was messaging to see how I was doing lately and told me he had a girlfriend? Can I ask what you all think, was he just flirting with me for that long as a joke or to keep busy or something? I just want to understand. Have no intention of pursuing, just want to hear your thoughts 💭

I find it ridiculous putting someone I'm just dating ahead of my long-term friends I've known for much longer (whom I actually grew up with) and my own family. I'm sorry but nope, my close friends and family come first to me.

Unless I had a child with him or we're married, that would make sense (that would be different) but just a romantic interest, no kids and we're just dating? Ridiculous. I wouldn't mind if he feels the same way either.

the one guy I dated , he was 32 & denied live with me , had no plans live with me& he lived with his mom.
It was weird as he had said he owns the living room & bedroom & his mom is never home just has her own room & kitchen.

I dumped this guy as he never wanted meet my family, spend holidays with me, not even take pics with me , don’t want baby,& I was basically single. We just went on dates that’s it.

do all guys want live alone forveer or live with his mom forever instead of a girl?

one new guy I’m talking to he is buying a house , but I don't know if he’ll be my serious boyfriend and want me live with one one day. Or he’ll be same as ex want live alone forever single?