Ex Girlfriends Former Best friend messaging me on snapchat?

[Fortunate7777]

Gonna try to make this short. My ex and I broke up 7YRs ago and her best friend and I are still friends on snapchat. All 3 of us would do everything together, Even worked at the same resturant. We took a trip to Keywest back when I was dating my ex. Fast forward, she now lives in FL with her new boyfriend and Im happy for her, She has a completely new life. My ex and I are currently NO CONTACT AND her best friend dont follow each other on socials anymore. (I have no idea what happned between them). I've been on vacation for the past 2 days in KW and my ex's former best friend now starts messaging me and remininencing about the things we did and places we went since she's been viewing my stories. WHY whould she all of a sudden start trying to "Reminence" its been 7 years. She also now has a boyfriend too? I just thought the contact out of know where was so subtile and strange. She messaged me first yesterday and the convo was pretty short (small talk). I left her on read yesterday and, TODAY she messages me again saying "OMG you went back there too?" whats this motive of hers? Like I said They DON'T follow each other on socials so I don't think there's any communication but, I don't know

[ThatRandomBoy]

Oh yes I am 15 and whenever I come in under this the people get really butt hurt and take my opinion as fact for some reason.

Personally I would probably block the person. This is just me I want to make that very clear. My thought process on this is if she has a family with this person I would 100% block the person because she should be worrying about her family.

Now if she doesn't I would reach out to the boyfriend and talk to him and make sure that he is aware she is reaching out to you. I only say this in case she then tries to be flirtatious or whatever else could happen.

If he knows and she's just trying to be chill then do whatever. That all depends if she's trying to be a friend or she's trying to be a not so Savory individual. 💀 that's the nicest way I can put it

[ThatRandomBoy]

I also just thought of something else she could possibly still be friends with your ex and depending on how your relationship ended your ex could be trying to get back at you. Or with you at that point it's up to you with how you want to handle that

[Fortunate7777]

This was probably the most useful Response so far and coming from a 15 yro is wild lol. Neither of the girls I mentioned have familes (of their own) but, they both have Boyfriends. Obviously im more concerned with the friend thats messaging me. CAUSE WHY? thats like me FOR EXAMPLE: having a girlfriend and messaging my ex girlfriend/s friend being like " HEY REMEMBER WHEN WE DID" lol humans are so dense and complicated

[Fortunate7777]

No flirty comments have been made as of now

[Fortunate7777]

theyre no longer friends on socials. Someone below mentioned the same thing.

[ThatRandomBoy]

Okay then she might just be trying to be chill but I would still make sure the boyfriend knows. That's just me because at the end of the day I don't want to be in the middle of some fight. Even if it is online. But then there's also the possibility that doing that she'll get pissed at you if he doesn't know. At that point I wish you the best

[ThatRandomBoy]

Yeah I can't lie also when I seen the if they're no longer friends on social media they could be trying to set you up I straight up stole that part from that person. 💀 it was a good point so I added it

[Fortunate7777]

You're very wise for a 15 year old and I couldnt agree more. Thanks for the tips. I even thought about that as well. it was just strange after not talking to either of them for 7 years and all of a sudden BOOM. Her friend hasn't opened my snap for 3hrs now.. But I know she's either ( waiting for the right time) or busy cause lets be real now. who doesn't look at their phone for almost 3 hours

[ThatRandomBoy]

I wouldn't say wise I just listen to all the advice I'm given. The end of the day it makes my life easier. But yeah it's definitely strange agree with you there but hopefully you can find out why

[Fortunate7777]

Set me up how though? I don't even associate with either of them or any of their friends/relitives

[ThatRandomBoy]

I'm not too sure of how you could get set up I don't know your history and don't worry I'm not asking depending on circumstances some circumstances have a zero possibility some have a greater than 0 possibility at that point if it has greater than 0 you have to decide if the risk is worth it never before did I think math would come in handy 💀

[Fortunate7777]

I really appreicate the help you've offered! its been super helpful!! The only way I truly think I would get caught slippin is if her friend asked to "hang out' but thats a redflag I wouldn't fall into obviously cause she has a boyfriend so either way my distance is still 1000+ miles from both of them. Still thank you for the insight!

[ThatRandomBoy]

No problem I wish you the best in this situation

[Anonymous]

How do you know They’re still together to this very day. Maybe they’re on their way out. Maybe she wants you back.

[Fortunate7777]

Not sure. But I feel like she would of added me by now if that was the case.

[Opinion Owner]

Check into it

[Fortunate7777]

I did. Super weird cause I haven't seen her IG in 7 years but yes theyre still together and she's still living in flordia with her New boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Make a new story and do a shout out in her name. See if she responds to you.

[avery58]

If it makes you feel uncomfortable just ignore her

[Fortunate7777]

Not really, it just threw me off gaurd. I'm just trying to figure out her intentions

[Abbycado]

Okay. And? What are we supposed to answer?

[Fortunate7777]

Why is she messaging me "Reminencing" she has a boyfriend? Everyone has an Intention. Thats what im trying to figure out

[Billlewis]

That sounds exciting... good luck!

[Fortunate7777]

... What LOL