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If I'm not romantically attracted to my friend (22F), why do I feel a slight hint of jealousy or uneasiness when I see her with other guys?
I have a close friend from college whom I've known for almost four years now - or at least, we used to be close. We'd met through a mutual friend of ours and hit it off really well. She was smart and funny, and shared a...
How do I get out of this funk, anyone else feel this way?
27F, I feel like my life has changed over the past year nothing drastic but things aren’t the same with people I’ve known. No personality changes, more like I don’t speak with them as often because they’re busier, other...
Why at this stage in my life I stopped caring about finding love?
I believe that I never was born to love or to be loved or I had had the worse luck ever in my life or Im a exceptional unique example to be studied by scientists (LOL!! Haha!!) as I doubt there are other women with the...
Is this a toxic friendship and should I distance myself?
So in the last year or so I decided to make a change and go to the gym and change my lifestyle and diet. I’ve lost two stone and feel better about myself. Recently, a friend of mine discovered i've been going to the gym...
How do I broach the subject of friends vs more?
I’m 31, he’s 35 We were coworkers for 4 years in the summers while I went to college (first met when I was 19) My Dad was also his boss & they get along super well. I’ll admit I crushed on him initially but I’m very shy &...
Approach Anxiety: The Eternal Struggle Part II
I've written a couple takes on approach anxiety over what's surly an esteemed tenure on this site (LOL!). You can read the first one here and second one there . I write on this topic because it is my Everest; the one...
Is this a toxic friendship?
Over the last year or so I decided to make a change and go to the gym and change my lifestyle and diet. I’ve lost two stone and feel better about myself. Recently, a friend of mine discovered i've been going to the gym...
Am I worth a chance?
I've got to know her four years ago and just had to let her wait because I had to finish college first. Then I wanted to find a job to be able to afford being in a happy relationship. But things changed as soon as I...
Is college necessary to have a good life?
Hello everybody, I am 22, living in Europe and studying pharmacy in college. Sometimes I ask myself if it is really necessary to study that hard to be succesfull. Because almost none of my middle school classmates took...
I kissed someone when my ex and I were considering getting back together. Am I a terrible person?
My ex and I broke up a little while ago. We started communicating again about a month and a half after the breakup, and then started hanging out. Things started to feel like we were dating again and he actually brought up...
Why is he being so weird?
I had a thing with a guy for 8 months then out of nowhere he ghosted me to "think". Here is the background on our relationship. I was friends with him for awhile than when I went to college we started FaceTiming every...
He's left it up to me to decide the course of this relationship & I don't know what to take from that?
The simplest way to explain us is we are friends with benefits who act like a couple most days for the past 9 months. He is a few years older travels for work & has his general shit for the most part together. I on the...
How to deal with loss of a friend?
Yesterday, my friends, ahem, ex-friends from my previous school trashed me on reddit. There was a post asking what person were you shocked that got into what college. I answered a girl that got into Harvard from my last...
I was a bully once (hurt a woman's only child) but I'm ashamed... what can I do?
Even though we're friends by now (I've changed) and 20 year-olds, I'm still ashamed of visiting him. We're in our 2nd college year and living with our parents; they pay our tuition. I'm not sure if I can even show my face...
Is Being Asocial Okay?
All my life ever since I was in the first grade I rarely belong in a group. I've always considered myself special. I love to meditate, read, exercise, and not behave the way most girls would. Most especially though, I...
Is texting new college batchmates a bad sign on whatsapp? Am I bad person or should I change myself?
Since our colleges are currently going in online mode. So our subject teachers made a whatsapp group. From there we had access to almost everyone's number. Am i being creep or weird individual by texting random persons in...
Am I weird for feeling this way?
I feel like I sound stupid for feeling this way but I am seeing it as possibly being done for a reason, and not random. Pretty much, last year was hard for me. My mental health took a turn and I was mostly dealing with...
A guy who you love VS A guy who put 100% on you, who will you choose?
A guy I love is my ex boyfriend, we been in long distance relationship for 6 months and I found out later that he been seeing an escort the whole time while we were together and after we meet I don’t know if he still...
So why is the girl I’m dating mad her best friend spent an evening with her ex? Why does it matter and should I reconsider dating her?
So like I’m a guy and my impresion was “who gives a f*ck, you’re no longer with him anymore”. I just don’t understand why women can’t just let go and forget about the past. There’s nothing you can do to change it....
Am I just a side chick or was it more? (pls read)?
so I found out the guy I’ve been in a relationship with for almost a year had a girlfriend for a year. i met his family and friends, would go out with him, and spent time at least twice a week together due to going to...
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