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I went to a social gathering to network with other folks who travel solo or in group, basically to learn from each others experiences. This guy came up to me and started talking. Over the next 30 mins, he just went on and on about his job, his apartment that he owns and the three side businesses he runs. He also tried inquiring if I was interested in having kids later in my life. Basically, he was selling himself and trying to gauge if I fit in his "requirements". He happened to ask for my phone number and I gave it. I know that I have to learn to say no and I have decided what to do next time some guy asks and I'm not willing to give. Out of being polite, I just continued the conversation and at one point, I moved into a group of guys and girls to avoid talking to him one-on-one. I did notice that he was also exchanging numbers with another girl in the group. Seems like a player.

Anyways, so he texted me the time I shared my number and I didn't read those messages indicating to him that I'm not interested. He texted me again a few hours ago asking how my week is going and if I'm free for coffee on Sunday morning. I haven't opened the message to read it as it flashed on my phone screen and I was able to read it there. So, now he thinks that I haven't read his message.

I do not want to talk or meet him. Should I just ghost him? I know its not mature thing to do but I'm done being nice already.

All two of these terms - alpha & high value - usually go with the below summary

A man who may be wealthy who has multiple women purusing him at the same time. He usually entertains more than one woman at a time (e. g. cheats, etc.). He doesn't necessarily - and oftentimes doesn't - have a good personality (being shallow, pretenious, ignorant, rude, demeaning to others, etc.) and oftentimes only attracts women because of his money.

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A ladies man / or "player" is usually described in the below summary

A "ladies' man" is a term used to describe a man who is skilled in attracting and interacting with women. This person is often seen as someone who is highly appealing to women and enjoys their company. He is oftentimes entertaining more than one woman at a time.

By meaningful I mean for potential marriage, having kids, etc.

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Personally I wouldn't - but then I've only been with 2 guys - because I see such people as untrustworthy, unreliable and unable to deal with life or a little bit of difficulty.

I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of them are unable to do more than minimal skills required jobs & only got lucky with better jobs than sweeping floors**.

Furthermore in my encounters, what I've heard, read, etc such people have bad personalities - immature, irresponsible, rude, ignorant, demeaning of others, etc., egotistical, short tempered, prone to childish behavior, not to mention oftentimes they're alcoholics and/or have issues with drugs - that'd make them very highly undesirable even if they didn't sleep around.

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**I've heard as example, including from family friends who taught what would become NHL players, that the average athlete and celebrity is far from being intelligent. The one who taught NHL players bluntly said they're fortunate to have been talented otherwise as they were struggling with simple secondary education. Ironically celebrity and athletes are notoriously unfaithful.