What are your thoughts on me not trying to avoid cheaters and players that would not make good boyfriends?

[SeaStorm1]

It was my experience with some good-looking guys who had previous relationships, but my relationship experience wasn't very positive. Some of them cheated on men and had a lot of drama with my friends. They did tempt the guy to cheat on me and they succeeded. I rejected their friendship requests and didn't get mad at them, but they got mad at me. Cheaters were rejected. Until I saw it on Facebook, I didn't realize he had multiple accounts and relationships until I met him through online dating. The texts stopped after we met, as he thought I was out of his league since he was older than me and did not get into a relationship with me. He did, however, get into a relationship with a woman I saw on Facebook and rejected. As for the other guy I met up with, he was unsuitable because he wanted something different for a relationship. He wanted a long-term relationship and a sexual relationship. He did send an ultimatum and we were already in a relationship. I decided to end things and he was uncomfortably with my mother about being on dates with me since for safety reasons. We're not compatible second men that i metup and that last message he sent to me and i blocked him. I met up with one man on Thursday 7 and is went great and did bring our mum to a date that I met through facebook dating and he did give me a gift of salted caramel chocolate Lindt. He was a bit late but was very short date because me and my mum had to drop off my younger sister to work. He did set up at next date in his town and is bowling. Two of the guys were not players but that i meation here first one was a players and two other guys were not players. What are your thoughts on me not trying to avoid cheaters and players that would not make good boyfriends?

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I'm looking for real respected opinion only thanks you.

[ohsheeT]

There's a lot of things that I probably shouldn't do that I do just because I want to experience and the knowledge of it but to date somebody that I know that has done certain things before is probably not for me because of the amount of people out there that are real and they're looking for something real now I just had something flashed through my head I have like 500 questions for you LOL now you make me curious on the reasons why you do what you do hey it's knowledge you have to experience it to understand that I guess but yeah I have a bunch of questions I would love to ask you

[SeaStorm1]

that is ok but my experince has not same another person. what types of question. i sometimes get bit nevous about asking about some question. that i seen a lot on dating apps and some one G@G to.

[ohsheeT]

No I was just curious about the reasons why you date the way that you date I find it pretty interesting so you must be very confident in yourself yeah I'm not really for sure the questions I mean they'll just come to me if we start talking they'll just come to me and it won't be bad questions they're just be interesting knowledge Questions for myself

[SeaStorm1]

Ok I don't feel that confident but I always be worrying about every single a when some guys are good looking but don't want stress and drama. I just want a decent relationship. I know good looking men are has more options is they are 5 % . That how some girls like men that are 5% that I'm not interested in these types of men.

[ohsheeT]

Have you ever just looked into a guy's eyes as you speak into him I mean don't look at the outside look at the inside first I feel his confidence heal each word he will tell you exactly who he is without him even knowing it he will tell you all about himself not by the words they using but by the words that he's not if that makes sense

[SeaStorm1]

I tried that wrong but ingot the wrong way and did ask a men out but did get rejected by some men that I did looked into their eyes.

[Wise4myage]

I think that's very smart of you and it can help you avoid a lot of BS from men.

[SeaStorm1]

yep and which one should i go for. i'm going on second date with men that i met off facebook dating and going into his town since the first date was cut short and was a bit late but did apologising and did get bit lost. went to meetup at costa coffee but was shut when i got there before the one guy.

[Wise4myage]

Give both guys a chance.

[SeaStorm1]

no one guys sent me a ultimatum tthat i meation in my detial in my qestion and other one didn't ultimatum but give me a glft of salted caramel chocolate Lindt. meation in my detial in my qestion.

[Wise4myage]

Forget the idiot who sent you an ultimatum.

[SeaStorm1]

yep i did blocked him what are you throughts on the other two men that i met up with beofore meting up with one.

[Anonymous]

“ thoughts on me not trying to avoid cheaters and players “

My thoughts are; you like what you like. You can’t help it. No one can force you to like certain types of men and dislikes others. You like what you like.

[ShesRad80]

as long as you are aware of the outcome or potential outcome, only you know how much you will take from those sort of guys.