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This world is a world of self-interest and gain. People don't interact with or do good deeds for those who don't benefit from them.

If you've noticed, mostly people with poor financial situations have many children because they want their children to have a good income and a substantial salary in the future so they can financially support them. That's why your father beats you mercilessly when your grades are low. He wants you to have good grades, get into a good university, have a good profession, earn a large sum of money, and support him.

And then there's old age. Nobody wants to go to a nursing home; nursing homes are literally prisons for the elderly. They torture them, mistreat them, and force their own excrement into their mouths. And when they're old, they expect you to take care of them.

I watched a couple of videos on YouTube and as a curious young woman I found a coupla comments which makes me question everything. I witnessed a female commentator arguing with a male commenter but I chose not to add fuel to the fire therefore leaving them alone. Is it true nerdy good girls who are average looking and has a kind heart not able to get more potential mates compared to a party girl who’s conventionally pretty but has unrealistic standards. She explicitly state men can have standards when it comes to women but when women have standards she called a gold digger, etc. Then he fought back ‘women like you said men’s height are a requirement but when we want women who are not fat y’all get mad.’ As for me I noticed there are some nerdy good girls able to get quality men who don’t care about looks. I keep my standards realistic and when it comes to height I prefer a guy to be around 2cm taller than me rather than 6-7 feet tall. He doesn’t need to be rich and he doesn’t need to be super hot. Thing is I’m afraid of meeting new people and avoid every volunteer and public meeting spaces hence why I’m still single because I’m too scared to have more friends. They say the only way to get a romantic partner is to meet new people but I refuse to do that hence why I’m single because I find single is easier and I hate changing my routines.

Honestly is it true women can’t have standards whereas men can have standards in society or am I wrong?