I don't think our parents really love us. What do you think?

[Entera]

This world is a world of self-interest and gain. People don't interact with or do good deeds for those who don't benefit from them.

If you've noticed, mostly people with poor financial situations have many children because they want their children to have a good income and a substantial salary in the future so they can financially support them. That's why your father beats you mercilessly when your grades are low. He wants you to have good grades, get into a good university, have a good profession, earn a large sum of money, and support him.

And then there's old age. Nobody wants to go to a nursing home; nursing homes are literally prisons for the elderly. They torture them, mistreat them, and force their own excrement into their mouths. And when they're old, they expect you to take care of them.

Agree

Disagree

[Master_Debator]

My mom born me and my 3 siblings all by different Daddies to get the child support. She didn't spend all that money on us for sure. It went to her substance abuse and shit like expensive perfume for trying to trap even more men into her weave of bullshit lies. So yeah, I generally agree just because of the situation I was born into. She was too busy making me cook all the food and do the house chores while she sat their with her bong and 40oz bottle of malt liquor chain smoking and telling me my cooking was shit. Queen of a kingdom where she would lock us in our rooms while she fucked random guys she found at the bar. Yeah... I never felt that "love" so many people speak of. I mention the realities of my upbringing to normies and they're just like "Damn... that's fucked up" Yeah no shit nugga. The rooms of that place was a double wide trailer by the way... trailer park trash. I'm literally out of that Eminem movie except we all know better than to trust people that eat chicken and watermelon. Who fucked his girl again? Anyways... my girl got stolen by a 55 year old with a really nice trailor... she was like 12 years old. Her mom basically sold her to an old guy and probably did sexual favors too for him. That's just one little segment of my life and I don't really want to share the rest right here right now. I just want to make it clear why I agree. Maybe later I'll talk about how my Great Grandmother would do butt stuff to me before I even had hair on my balls, but that's another story for another day. A fond memory of getting the shit beat out of me for not memorizing multiplication talbes is hitting my brain, but that was a different segment of my upbringing.

Multiple household... and all of them brought the same conclusion as you've laid out here. The reall didn't give a shit about us. I would even treat an animal the way I've been treated as a child. They're sick monkies and we are probably here because of the financial gain they got from it... otherwise aborted for their own financial gain.

And yes... I do sit around wishing I was just aborted instead of this long life of hell I've lived.

[realbiggrin]

Im sorry but when I read your statement/question, a bunch of things came to mind. But, one thought stood out above the rest and in my minds eye it was my Grandmother telling me. "if you dont have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"
Ill just leave that here.

[Ellie-V]

I think maybe you and many others have felt that way personally. God bless y'all.
Accept whatever the reality is and return back to your joy. And of course, have boundaries where it’s necessary.
You parents can only do what you allow once you’re an adult, that’s great news!
Don’t fret, most of us are mistake babies anyway lol.

[beenherebefore]

I do agree that a lot of parents have kids with hopes that one day they'll take care of them. But if you're a sh*tty parent I think is wrong of you to expect such thing.

[FreyaRed]

Parents are the only one who love us.
When you analyze love as feeling it's very egoistic because people don't love others for who they are but for what they get from them. In parent love it's rather some kind of blind investment they expecting something here and now.

[jshm2]

Could be they have mental issues, or it could be you have mental issues.

Either way both you geezers need intervention.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m sorry you have such shitty parents that never helped you to feel wanted or loved

[queenofcardio]

It's hard being a parent.. Some parents love their kids.

[Anonymous]

Maybe your parents just don't like YOU. Did you ever consider that?

[Nikki1989]

Some do, some don't.