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So. I have this friend who is a guy. And I just wanna make sure everything here is normal? So we both live on campus and we've spent a lot of time together since this semester started. We knew eachother last year but I guess we didn't become good friends until the start of this semester. He comes by and always knocks on my door every day unless one of us are off campus. Usually we either chat outside for an hour or two or hang out in the campus park. On the weekends that can easily end up being over 8 hours if we run into other friends to go to places with. He's very extroverted so I just assumed since I'm always available to hang out he just comes to my dorm. We use a group chat with other friends to communicate and we've never called or texted eachother outside of it. But with that being said... If I say I'm going anywhere on campus or even imply I'm there in the group chat, he shows up a few minutes later like 75% of the time. Also an example of this recently, he was so sick to a point he took 5 days off work and almost needed to be hospitalized... When I mentioned I wanted to go to a close fast food place but couldn't walk there alone he showed up half dead on my door step to come with me. I invited some other friends along the way and we all went together but he didn't order anything. He hung out with us for the rest of the evening but honestly he should have been in bed! Before we started talking every day he once told me I reminded him of his little sister in some ways. So I took that as green light that he just wanted to be friends too. I think and hope that is still the case? I'm so hopeless when it comes to understanding these things. I just want to hear from a guys point of view what you think is going through his head. It's honestly really confusing. He wants to show me all his favorite songs and movies and tell me all about his past and favorite things. I just don't know what to think of all this..

I’ve been friends with this girl on and off for 9 years. Last week we made plans to go clubbing for her 21st birthday on Friday but my boyfriend wanted to hang out instead and I wasn’t responding to my friends texts but answered a call and she was pissed and said nasty shit about my boyfriend. She thinks he’s manipulative etc and she thinks I put him before her. (I’ve been with him for 3 months). I bought her stuff and tried to apologize earlier this week but she still seemed pissed. We were supposed to go to the same club this Saturday and she took off of work. However, everyone who’s going is going with their SO, she doesn’t have one and is too scared to meet up with a guy from a dating app and doesn’t want me to invite mine because she doesn’t wanna be left out etc and it’s too much drama. I lied and just messaged her that I’m supposed to watch my aunts kids this weekend so I won’t be able to go. She hasn’t responded but I don’t feel like putting up with all the drama and feeling like I have to babysit her and entertain her. she's never met my boyfriend but already hates him. She will become jealous and bitchy and yadda yadda and be up our asses. She said I take years to respond to her but text my boyfriend back in 2 seconds and I always show up late etc. My parents are super strict about what I do and she knows this. She always asks me every week about meeting up but now I don't know. She becomes really mean and bitchy and controlling. She lives 5 minutes away and we get together at least once or twice a week to talk or go for a walk and I like hanging out with her but not for extended amounts of time. Do you think I’m a bad friend? Do you think she will talk to me after this?