So you just joined tinder and are thinking about texts to put in your description or you are on there and wondering why you're faced with shit people all the time? Here's what you should avoid and why:
1: "I wanna be accepted for who i am" or "i am just myself"
To us men that just translates to: "i'm an insufferable bitch and i know it". we assume that you have been through lots of rejections or harsh breakups where you were left for who you are.
2: "No one night stands"
we get it. no girl on a dating site is looking for one night stands, cause every guy knows a girl doesn't need to join a dating site if they're looking for a hookup. Also this hints towards bad experiences in your past or maybe you've been fucking around a lot and don't wantthat anymore. we also understand it as code for: "i'm not gonna make this easy or fun for you!"
3: Just emojis
I'm not sure how the younger generation feels about this but my generation thinks it's childish and uninspired. so if you don't want us to think you're a plain bitch, put a text too.
4: You expect something more than just "hi"
If you mention that with any wording in your description that tells us, you are way too entitled and think you're the bees knees. very few men are into little princesses that think they are hot shit. we understand that women get a LOT of texts and it's a hassle to go through all the "hi" first messages. but think about how dating sites work for men. 50% of the women are fake accounts that try to get you to some pay site and another 30% of girls never answer no matter how much effort you put to text them first. consider this to be like a "knock knock". you don't need to be creative. just reply with a hi if you're interested in the dude to show you're a real person and you wanna talk.
5: You mention that you're interested in sex
We assume you are either a prostitute that expects us to pay for sex with you or a fake account.
Avoid all of the above. rather put just nothing and leave it blank. that's not optimal but better than any of the previously mentioned things.
If you have other things to avoid or things for men to avoid, put it in the comments :)