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Hi 👋 There’s this guy who works in the building where I live. I asked him to help me move some furnitures in my flat he immediately accepted to come the next day to help during his cigarette break ( so escaping from work basically)

he came at 6pm and helped so much like I was scared he break his back lol he was friendly and smiley. The furniture would not go through the hallway and so he said he will come later he left in a hurry and I could tell he probably left work without telling his team.

He did come back later and came around midnight between two paying customers at his job ( restaurant) .

I was in my room and heard him moving it in the hallway I came out and said ‘ oh my god let me help you you should of knock at my door ‘ he then said he was happy to help smiled was friendly and polite and rushed back to his job.

I did not had time to invite him for lunch now which was my move to know if he had a girlfriend or not because if he said yes it meant he had no girlfriend.

Now I am back to square 1 . He did not try to make conversation or to make the thing goes longer etc.

Maybe he is just friendly and in fact has a girlfriend?

I am really upset I did not asked him but my mouth was full of smelly garlic pizza and he probably heard me being gross in my room ( laughing loud on the office US 🇺🇸) lol Thanks

My crush had a „stranger“ crush on me for YEARS after briefly talking once in class and used to stare or take glances repeatedly when he saw me and listened to my conversations with others. One day he saw me interacting with a guy who tried to strike up a conversation trying to find out where I’m coming from, possibly flirting with me (due to my ethnic background). I was polite but short since I was busy that day and don’t like talking to random strangers. After that, I found out my crush looked up a few of my friends on LinkedIn. The next time I saw him he didn’t look at me like he usually did and from then on he barely looked at me anymore. A few months later he deleted the playlist he made for me a year ago.

Why did his interest in me drop all of a sudden to zero? I’m pretty sure he knew from the very beginning that I’m not the most outgoing person so seeing me being shy with strangers shouldn’t come as a surprise to him. How is being shy with strangers such a big deal for someone who has admired me for YEARS?

I didn't even flirt with him but maybe he took me being more talkative than usual as flirting. He remained polite but was not as smiley and chatty as usual even though I caught him checking me out several times before and he used to be very interested in my personal life the first time we talked.