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Search Results: paying for the first date
Date with a girl?
Hi everyone, I asked this to have a rough understanding. When I am outside, I usually see boyfriends helping to carry things like shopping bags or handbags, ordering and paying for food. I don't see their...
Minty_Blue
Xper 4 Age: 26 Straight Women: If a guy you find really attractive refuses to pay for you on a date and only goes Dutch, would that change your view of him?
Say there's a guy you really find really attractive. He is neutral to you at first, but you drop a lot of really strong hints for him to get to know you better and take you out on a date. The guy is open-minded and...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 
The story for the Orange-Eyed man, that no one have heard about - Bulgaria.
Alright, so my boyfriend came back from 'man-gathering' today. Men, and i mean MEN, having serious MAN talks. But among those talks, he heard an interesting story. Rumors perhaps, but even policeman and a military man had...
AvaOneLasTime
Xper 6 Age: 22 I’m feeling anxious about this guy after first date, am I overthinking it?
I met this guy on Bumble, and we met two days ago. It was chill, he insisted on paying for everything, drove me home, and tried to prolong the date as much as he can. When he dropped me off, I said ‘So, next time’s on...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it normal to not fight in a relationship? If you do argue, what are they about? Also, do you have any advice how to cut out expenses?
S. O. and I dated for a year, stayed engaged for 4 months and we've been married for a year. We bought a house a month before the wedding which wiped out most of our cash -deposit, COV, Tax etc. Basically we did not...
ryoru
Xper 5 Age: 34 How do I address my social retardation?
I am a 27 year old guy from the southern United States. I turn 28 later this year, and I have never had a real girlfriend before, especially nothing serious or long-term. In addition, I am lacking friends. Almost everyday...
Almost_Incel
Xper 2 Age: 31 What women do understand about men
So you want to find a man that is caring and loving and yet not wimpy. You want that cool, good looking man with a nice salary. You can say you don't care about that, but we know you do. He's tall and charming and works...
MrtoddsWildRide
Xper 6 Age: 54 Men or women , who pays for the date? Or if not pay , do you expect chocolates? Flowers?
Recently considering the mysoginistic state of the world and how much is expected by the guy. I mean TV shows the guy always bringing chocolates or flowers for a girl and a guy gets nothing really. Had a date recently...
mikaelis
Xper 4 Age: 40 Would you stay in this relationship?
Hi everyone, I really need your opinion. My fiancé and I have been engaged for 1 year. When we first met, he told me that throughout his entire life, he has given every dime to his parents to help keep a roof over...
Anonymous
(30-35) How much notice would you give if you were going to cancel a FIRST date?
I had a date last night, spent a decent amount of time getting ready, and drove to the place to meet up. Once I got there, I checked my phone and had a text exactly one hour before our date from him, saying something came...
Jasmine-Darkfire
Xper 4 Age: 24 Should I stay out of it?
I’m just so upset. My twin sister’s fiancé took a phone she was paying on monthly because she was upset with her. It’s on her plan, my sister sends her money for her portion. She said she wants the whole thing upfront...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you set up a better date?
Last time I was at Disney World there was a couple that was on their first date there. How do you top that as a date? I mean you figure about $75 or so to get into the park and then about $50 to eat there. If the guy is...
Twalli
Master Age: 35 Why guys are not threatened by a woman having a professional career
I recently saw a comment from an anonymous female GAG member in her 40s who stated that men her age she met when dating were threatened by her career. The purpose of the Take is to explain why that was very unlikely and...
Do you see this as a need of concern or worry? Please help. Should I be worried?
This is pretty long, but please read. I don't know If I should be worried if I'm in danger or not When I was 14, I dated a 21 year old guy. At one stage, we were messing around, and next thing you knew, when I wasn't...
Anonymous
(18-24) If its your first dinner date with someone, what are you likely to order?
Pretend its a restaurant that serves every type of cuisine. And pretend you are paying for your own meal (which you should be, both ladies and gentleman, in my opinion lol). But What would you order? I honestly just want...
Is it reasonable not to disclose where I work/how much I make for the first few dates?
Like I'd at least want to get to know a woman before I tell her about my financial situation. I don't really care about paying for the date, but I'd like to leave it at that.
OlderThanILook
Xper 7 Age: 29 Guys, is it deal breaker when a girl makes the first step or pays the date?
I think it is ok to make the first step or paying the date but i have heard that some guys think it is unfeminine or unattractive. I personally prefere to pay the dates, otherwise i feel like a gold diggers lol
hi_it_is_me123
Yoda Age: 27 Do you think it's rude when the guy tells the girl pay for the dates?
I don't think it's rude. I'm used to the modern way of life. I started going out with this guy and he's ok with me paying for things. Like the first date I paid for the dinner. The second date he paid for the bowling. Now...
Anonymous
(30-35) What are a guys first date expectations?
A guy I met at a party asked me out. He seemed super into me. We talked for over an hour getting to know each other in a secluded area and he asked a lot of questions about me. He replies to my texts almost right away. I...
Tianara
Xper 5 Age: 27 How to stop feeling like a burden to my boyfriend?
my boyfriend and I we've been together for 6 months. He makes more money than me and i recently had a salary reduction. When we first started going out I was paying as I used to make more than him. This week I promised to...
Anonymous
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