Date with a girl?

Hi everyone, I asked this to have a rough
understanding. When I am outside, I usually
see boyfriends helping to carry things like
shopping bags or handbags, ordering and
paying for food. I don't see their girlfriends
reciprocating, why is this so? Are the guys
whipped and she wears the pants in the
relationship? Or the guy has control or
insecurity issues and wanted to demonstrate
how capable he is in terms of strength and
wealth. Personally if I am out on a first blind
date with a girl, I feel it's only fair for guys if
both split or go dutch as both of them don't
know each other.
Who should pay and carry shopping bags on
a first date? I believe there should be give and take in a relationship and there should be equal opportunities for both gender to be able to things the opposite gender do
Guy carry things and pay for first date
Girl carry things and pay for first date
Both help to carry and split or go dutch during meals
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Date with a girl?
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