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There is a guy at work that mentioned during my interview that I seemed pretty cool (not necessarily as a compliment). He avoids me and acts pretty disinterested but can strike up conversations with everyone else. Do people avoid other people with a different temperament or does he just find me boring as a person? I don’t think he is the most interesting person either. He will act comfortably and nice to me in groups but aloof when we are alone. Sometimes when he is with others or when I talk to others he tries to get my attention by greeting me, turning away and smiling to himself. Does he think I’m not important enough to talk to until he sees me with others? Why does he act weird around me?

Some shit came up and my ride can’t take me to the airport which is almost 2 hours away due to car issues. My tummy is tossing and turning just thinking about the fact that the car rental place want $800+ for a rental OR I could pay $400 there and back ($200 per day) for an uber OR i could ask my dad OR i could offer to fix the person’s car. I really dont wanna ask my dad y'all lmao. That man is annoying and I was an asshole to him all year. I don’t want to have to crawl to ask that man. Lmao i know its what i deserve but ughhh 😩 I’m bout to puke yo… This man has been waiting for the day i need him. I don’t wanna need him lmao. I also wanted to have a certain amount for my trip next month and not have to cut into that, especially since i already have to pay bout $1000 for a new phone. This year has been a financial failure and I don’t need to go back into my savings. This suckssss #FeelFreeToList

I was talking to this guy for about a month. We met online dating. I was in the process of moving during that month so I did give him a heads up for the first few weeks I wouldn't have been able to meet up. He still asked me to hang out the week I was moving and I thought I could have fit it in but I told him I was too busy. I asked if we could video chat or call over the phone. He said no.

Well, then when rescheduling a date. I asked if he wanted to meet before his nightshift for a quick coffee since it was the first time we were meeting each other. He said no. I asked if he wanted to do it on his day off and he said no, he is streaming and sleeping.

So literally the week I'm moving, he decides he wants to move too. I moved only like 5 miles and he was moving 30 miles away. So I told him since he was moving farther away we should talk on the phone more often... he said no.

Then I sent him a selfie all dolled up, trying to flirt with him. He goes I don't like your red lip stick.

Anyway, I thought since we had been talking so long I be respectful and end things because I was tired of him turning me down. I told him I thought it was best we go our separate ways.

Now, based upon how he constantly saying no and only wanting to text me wouldn't it make sense to think he wasn't that into me?