Do you think I should do it?

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Some shit came up and my ride can’t take me to the airport which is almost 2 hours away due to car issues. My tummy is tossing and turning just thinking about the fact that the car rental place want $800+ for a rental OR I could pay $400 there and back ($200 per day) for an uber OR i could ask my dad OR i could offer to fix the person’s car. I really dont wanna ask my dad y'all lmao. That man is annoying and I was an asshole to him all year. I don’t want to have to crawl to ask that man. Lmao i know its what i deserve but ughhh 😩 I’m bout to puke yo… This man has been waiting for the day i need him. I don’t wanna need him lmao. I also wanted to have a certain amount for my trip next month and not have to cut into that, especially since i already have to pay bout $1000 for a new phone. This year has been a financial failure and I don’t need to go back into my savings. This suckssss  #FeelFreeToList

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Yo man that does suck, I feel your frustration. A few thoughts:

- I know you don't want to, but biting the bullet and just asking your dad may end up being the cheaper/easiest option in the long run to save money and stress.

- Could you Uber to a nearby airport then fly from there? Might cut some costs vs the full 2hr drive Uber each way.

- As a last resort, what if you offered to repair the car yourself or help out around the house in exchange for the ride? Gotta swallow pride sometimes ya feel me

- If all else fails, maybe look into renting a car one way instead of round trip to cut the rental costs? Drop it at the airport then get picked up.

Ultimately do what you gotta do to ball on a budget and get to your trip luv. Don't stress too heavy, it'll work out somehow. Hit up dad as a last option if others don't roll, then you balled on your terms still ya heard

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

I voted "fix your original ride's car". Reason #1, this person is being there for you, it's good to be there for them. One idea would be to ask them how much it is to fix their car, and if it's more than $300, ask if they would be down to have you pay for half (or some portion of it). I would say take this option up to $500 if you want to build goodwill and show your friend some appreciation.

I commented on some other answers, but I'll list a few alternatives as well:

Public transport: I have found this could cost from $10-$60 for a 2 hour trip. Check for airport shuttles in your area (may be a private company).

Craigslist: People cringe at CL, but it's just regular people and I've used CL many times to find good deals. You would still use caution and trust your gut, but they have a "Rideshare" section. Cost = free - $100

exitseven · Answer

In what state does it cost 800 bucks to rent a car? Did you look into getting an Uber?

RavVid · Answer

I wouldn't ask a favor from anyone who is likely to milk it later full stop.

Don't know how much time you have to make arrangements but I think fixing the other person's car might be problematic if a part has to be got in or they are booked up. A friend needed a quick car repair recently but the garage was fully booked into the new year.

If it is tomorrow I'd pick Uber. If there was longer I'd make a list of my more impoverished friends and offer $100. But they might not be reliable.

Worth considering cabs/taxis. You can ask for a quote and negotiate for a fare like that with cabs whereas you can't negotiate with Uber though there is rideshare.

Good luck.

Screenwriter · Answer

This is a vacation, isn't it? Just suck it up and pick your pocketbook. You won't be obligated to anyone.

Be nicer to your dad if you can. Remember, he won't be around forever, and unless he's so awful that you HAVE to avoid him because he's a drug addict or alcoholic or physically abusive, help him when you can, and when you can't, say "No. I can't." But tell him you love him.

You can always refill your savings. It'll take time, but it's doable. Choose the least expensive option: Uber. It's half the cost of renting a car, and for the most part, that rental will sit in the airport lot eating up more money in a paid parking place. That doesn't make sense. Good luck and have a good time.

HawkPerception · Answer

Hate to say it, but I think you should just suck up to your dad. Although you may not have the best relationship with him, he's clearly still there for you enough to give you a drop to the airport. Think of it as a job. You just have to deal with his shit for a few hours at mostz then be on your way and not have to cut into your budget for your trip next month. Once you're at the airport, you'll feel extreme relief you didn't have to spend all that money and actually happy you relied on him. Try not to let your pride impair your judgment 😂

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Maybe post an ad online saying you will pay one of your friends $150 for a ride and see if anybody responds. There were two girls at my church that went to the girls bible study to look for babysitters when they needed a trustworthy female they knew personally for help.

mandyfire98 · Answer

This is a tough situation. It's either ask your dad or cut into your trip money or new phone money.

Depends on how bad of a relationship I had with my dad. If it was bad then I'd cut into my trip money or phone money and just either try making it up later or try to budget the trip when I did go.

hahahmm · Answer

Uber.. but, I would aim to get to the airport 3 hours early or something, so if the first Uber driver doesn't show up you still have time to get a second one. I agree with the guy who told you to suck it up and ask your dad till I saw you wrote that he let you down before. Can't risk asking him for a long trip in the middle of the night. He doesn't sound dependable.

SimplyPut · Answer

You can get a phone for free and get your service for free so I don't know about $1,000 for a phone that doesn't quite compute to me. And where the hell is a car rental that much unless it's just been jacked up that much since covid because I haven't rented one in like 5 years but it was a mere fraction of what you're saying

appleadayisgood · Answer

if i maybe honest i would asked your dad.

1 reason you won't have to worry about getting kidnapped.

2 reason ever if you have to give him money you will prob still not have to pay a lot

as per the Pay who knows how fckin much to fix my original ride’s car
if say it was only $300 would be a deal

no one knows plus who knows how long it would take to fix.

SunnyRS · Answer

Honestly speaking wifey according to me calling your dad would be the best option but I know you don't want to do that and it's the end of year you should end it happy.
So the second best option is going with the rental.
Or what if you call your guy with his vehicle. Is that possible?

lilyanony1 · Answer

I would say pay for and uber. Unfortunately this is what happens when you're an adult shit happens and we gotta make sacrafices...
It sucks but money comes and goes.
But if you make the decision fast you'll be on your way to getting it back...

electromagnetic · Answer

Just tough it out and get that Uber. That’s literally been me since driving is not an option and I cannot always guarantee my partner will be available.

RoseySarah · Answer

I'd ad ise the top 2! If you can't trust your dad it's not worth risking it! Honestly the rental is probably the best!  Ubers can be late or canceled!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Outside the box, are there U-Hauls near you and the airport? I knew a guy who rented one of their vans because it ended up being cheaper, even with mileage, than renting a car from any of the local operators.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Public transportation possible? Cheaper to borrow from Dad if he has nothing better to do anyway. Otherwise pay for it. You never know when you might not get another year to be an asshole to him.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Well, it looks like you made a decision.. At least it's much cheaper than spending hundreds of dollars to get to the airport.. You'll appreciate it if the trip is great..

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I would just go to your dad. I use my dad all the time for money and stuff LOL

Shark_61695 · Answer

Check the busses, most airports have a bus service to them and then you only need a taxi to the closest stop to you.

Crankor · Answer

I had something similar happen to me a month ago. Ride bailed a few days before an hour plus drive. Fortunately I found a ride the day before. I would have had to dish out some money for sure otherwise

DJB72 · Answer

Ask your dad. It's what a parent is supposed to be there for.

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