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So, my boyfriend, my mom, and I went to a small town, and I wanted to drink a smoothie. I pleaded with them to take me to a café where a man was singing live. I was happy listening to the music and enjoying my smoothie. But once I was done, I wanted to leave, while the other two were still singing along and enjoying themselves.

BUT I WAS TIRED OF THE VIBE. I wanted to leave right then, so I sat there, making my desire to leave clear on my face. Yet they kept ordering drinks. I couldn’t take it anymore—I just wanted to leave. I was tired of listening to the music. So I decided to take a walk outside.

I left and crossed the corner. When I wanted to return, a dog blocked the way, so I took the long route.

When I came back, my mom told me my boyfriend had gone looking for me. Thirty minutes later, he returned sweating. He had run all around the town, imagining the worst. He convinced himself I’d been kidnapped by human traffickers or killed in the forest (I’d been gone less than 20 minutes).

He even showed me statistics about how many women are kidnapped per year. Then he gave me the silent treatment because I wasn’t taking him seriously—if anything, I was laughing.

Finally, when they took me out of that putrid café, we went home. While driving, he talked to my mom about how I should be responsible for myself. Something about noticing an old man following me, waiting for the opportunity, etc. Then he suddenly stopped talking because his arm started stinging—from his hand to his ear.

When his episode ended, he said he has a heart abnormality where it beats faster than normal and he’s prone to those issues. He hadn’t had one in two years.

So, who do you think was in the wrong? I don’t know if I was irresponsible or if they were being dramatic. They’re calling me selfish for leaving the café without telling them. But from my perspective, the café wasn’t the vibe, so I left—as I should have.

Next week I saw in the news that it may be going up to 30 degrees…. I addressed it to my mom and all she kept saying was “ok”.
She knows the heat makes me sick and that I work early mornings as well. She was getting mad when I was asking her about the air and she said that I “interrogate” her anytime I come home- which isn’t true. I’m allowed to speak up if it’s something health related and I only asked her once about it. She’s the one that only says “ok”. she also doesn’t pay attention when groceries are needed at home and she’s always on her phone.
She always makes a big deal when the window is open as well and claims she’s cold but the house is never cold. It’s always “warm” or room temperature.
She then proceeded to say that I should go stay with my boyfriend until she puts it on if I don’t like it.

what should I do about Thai situation? Isn’t she being unreasonable?