Is it normal for a 27 year old live with parents? y I feel depressed is this normal?

[Sugar100]

I never had a boyfriend so that’s y I’m not living with a man. I feel weird as I’m not 15 , I feel strong urge live with a man not my mom and dad. It makes me miserable each day. I’m still trying to save money so that’s y I haven’t moved out yet. Been having too many car expenses hindering my move.
Then I realize I have no sex life. Can’t even masterbate as parents come home fast when I try masterbate.
it feels just sad. They prob are happy to see me with no sex no love in my life.

i never got marriage from a guy. Then im scared ill be stuck taking care of them and never be able get pregnant have a man if i live with them longer and they’ll expect me take care of them.

i desire decorate my own home. Mom is a hoarder and everything on the floor unorganized.
I work far and live in the car some days.

[RespectfulGuy]

Hi Sugar,

I've been reading your questions since years before Covid.

This means for over a decade, you kept asking about staying with parents, wanting a relationship, difficult work life, practically what you asked here.

What did you do with the answers given by so many nice guys and girls?

If you're really serious about your life and not trolling, read through the past answers. I'm sure some are quite practical for you to make the first change to your life.

No offense, but I think you know what to do. You simply want sympathy, which not many here are giving because they can't read from your lines.

And I write today because if you're not trolling, then you may need to see a professional counselor.

[Sugar100]

It’s been difficult get a boyfriend. I have years searching for a boyfriend.

[Sugar100]

Maybe I can’t get a boyfriend as my body is too skinny and men only want huge boobs and ass. I’m not rich to afford surgery I’m very skinny no guy wants make me pregnant either have sex daily 😔

[RespectfulGuy]

If you're seeking a person who loves you for who you are, then you don't need to chnage your physical attributes, which is almost impossible.

Instead, you may want to change your image confidence. Be comfortable with who you are as a person.

Acquire life skills, learn to communicate and be positive with your outlook with life.

Then you'll be attractive to many guys. And perhaps one of them will want to marry you.

[Orion84]

Things are different now than they were even just twenty years ago. I've heard of a lot more people in their 20's still living at home than they were when I was that age, and that wasn't even that long ago.

I can understand living at home being very frustrating, in more ways than one, but I noticed you seem to be making moving out synonymous with having a relationship. Is it your hope to find a man to take care of you, or could you possibly find a job that would allow you to move out on your own, without a boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

I want a man not be single forever. I do want live with a man not alone. Im depresed living with parents im a woman almost 28 not a baby.

[Sugar100]

Since I’m grown I feel misery sitting in bed while having my parents here in the living room. I’m older. Not 15. I want a man here in my bed. Not my mom n dad.

[Orion84]

I totally understand that; I do. Being lonely can suck, when you'd prefer to have someone with you.

I was just asking if moving out required having a relationship, first, or if you were able to get your own place, and then find a guy.

Just because it might be easier to date, and have more of a social & sex life if you weren't constrained by living with your parents.

[Sugar100]

No cuz I work far and daily I meet boys at my job but it’s difficult for me to get a boyfriend.

[Orion84]

Have you tried talking to the guys you meet at work? Are they available? Do they like you? Do you know if there's a reason they don't date you?

As far as moving out, what about trying to find a roommate to share the bills with you? That could make it easier to get out of your parents' house, and then you could invite a guy over to spend time with you.

[Sugar100]

Girls hate me I don’t have girl friends. I’m not likable to girls and they are just envious catty judge you a lot so I’m alone. So roommate isn’t an option.

Yes but for me it’s not easy get a boyfriend. Like I don’t get a boyfriend in one day. I have bad luck never had a boyfriend in 27 years. No guy loves me back. I love guys but they don’t.

[Orion84]

I'm very sorry to hear that. I'm not sure what else to suggest. I know it's frustrating, but just keep trying. I'm sure there's a guy out there for you, somewhere.

Just try to stay positive, in the meantime.
🙂

[JordansGate]

Gjal, my b f didn't move out till she was 30. you're fine. Life's expensive as feck

[Nikki1989]

I don't know anyone over the age of 21 still living at home.

[WonderingManII]

It's normal for you to feel depressed about this. But life is like this. You do what you can, and keep trying.

[Anonymous]

my kids live with me and they are 39 and 35

[RespectfulGuy]

You're 45 plus and I take it as 49.

If your elder kid is 39, then you give birth at 10yo.

No.