I'm 27 and still live with my parents?

[Anonymous]

Am I a loser? I feel like a loser to be honest.
I got no friends to rent with and no solid salary so I'm kind of just saving up but I think I'm so behind in life.
It depresses me seeing my peers on Facebook making deposits on houses, having children and getting married.
And I'm just here, with my controlling mother and still living at home. 😂
What can I do?
Help

[Anonymous]

The biggest limitations for females in relationships are health and visibility. If you enter more group settings you'll have greater visibility. You are right around the average marrying age, so if you increase both factors your odds will be better. If you have all the necessary life skills, cooking, cleaning, and budgeting your a fine catch indeed. You aren't a loser, your just being limited.

[jray85]

It would be unhealthy if you didn't have the desire to get out and be on your own. It's not always easy to do it though. Are you really better off moving out and being completely broke all the time? I wouldn't think so. Just keep working at getting a better job and save what you can for now.

[Anonymous]

I'm 24, I'm dealing the same. I'm crying to think about this. I have no idea how to get good man to marry me. I'm tired living with toxic family, tired being virgin, tired of everything. I don't understand why other girls got every thing so easily

[yucychan]

I'm not sure how bad the covid situation is at your place. But what type of work are you doing?

[Underworld158]

Why you must live on your own? Who said that you must leave your parents at certain age? What is wrong to live with our parents. I still live with my parents but I work. i love being around my parents and help them out. as i dont want a family of my own and dont plan to get married yet being around my parents ease my loneliness. You are not behind in life you just live differently

[KingJared24]

I’m 25 and living the same life as you. 2 of my brothers moved out and I’m stuck here like I’m a little kid. I mentioned moving out and my mom started crying. I want to get married and have kids someday. I have a brother that is married, another brother that has a girlfriend and another with 2 kids. Good for them but I want all of that. I know people from my high school that has kids and some of them got married

[Daniela1982]

You're 25, why do you not have a decent job? Did you not go to college or did you party when you were there instead of applying yourself?

[KingJared24]

You’re 32, why do you not have a decent job? Did you not go to college or did you party when you were there instead of applying yourself? What makes you think that I don’t have any job? Yes I went to college and nobody partied ever when I was in college and I know that they still aren’t probably. That’s not a waste your time by partying type of college

[Daniela1982]

I do have a decent job and am not the one complaining. Well if you have a decent paying job that pays a living wage then why can't you move out? I don't understand what's holding you back. You can either do something about your situation or not. If you can do something then do it and stop complaining. If you can't do anything then complaining won't help any. I really need more information on what is the real problem.

[KingJared24]

How am I complaining dumb ass?

[KingJared24]

Hey Daniela1982 thinks you’re complaining because you’re a 27 year old that still lives with your parents instead of just moving out.. that is really crazy

[KingJared24]

@Daniela1982 you need to go back to school cause you clearly can’t read what I said

[bklynbadboy1]

Well your definitely not a loser. This is crazy times we live in. Your doing the right thing stay there and SAVE YOUR MONEY! With covid jobs are not stable. Keep saving and by next year you can move out and live your life

[pocketman]

Make rent money, get what you need. Go around town and look for opportunity. Ask yourself: whats my problem? , what am i going to to about it? Then document what you are doing about it.

[Labbeabbe26]

It's sounds that u are very lonley:( Is that do u want to chat private?

[Asker]

Not lonely. And definitely not lonely to talk to some 18 year old online lol.

[Labbeabbe26]

Okay. Sorry. I misunderstood you

[KrakenAttackin]

Just marry a soy boy for a few years, than divorce him and take half of his shit including the house. Problem solved.

[flashgrandad]

I think you have hit the nail on the head ( a controlling mother).
You need to find a way to get out from under her!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If you don't feel comfortable then do something about it. Nothing will change til you take action.

[Carmella_000]

No your under 30 and unless they live with you that’s fine.

[tripptt9]

I'm way more pathetic.. but I am a single dad... anyway wanna chat

[NatalieKeller95]

it's fine as long as you're not a guy

[RobMartin90]

You have to move out and control your own life

[Asker]

I do but I honestly don't know where to start.

[Unit1]

Get a better career?