Is it a red flag that my boyfriend has two baby moms and they both have completely ghosted him and cut him off from their kids?

[Calihoodlum]

[Summeroflove]

Number one legally speaking you can’t just cut someone off from their kids. Unless either he allowed it or a court said that he has zero parental rights which is questionable both ways.

Some people have kids out of wedlock. But if he chose two shitbag women and had babies with them that’s questionable. Two… why can’t he see his kids? Is he even being honest? Either does he not want to or is there legal issues?

[ohsheeT]

BINGO. Well, at least you're acknowledging it. You just have to make a choice now.
Because. Something has made you ask this question the Moral of this story is do not get pregnant.

[naartjie]

Without a doubt. Personally, I’ll never ever date a man with kids. Like man go fix your broken family fr.
If the person really isn’t who you want to be with then you really shouldn’t be having kids with whoever.

[PeachyPie93]

Yes.. It was a red flag at baby mama's.. Having an ex wife and kids is normal but having 2 ex's with kids is not normal.. He's a fuck boy who abandons his kids. You wanna be baby mama number 3? lol

[Zack-Bann]

Imagine how bad the dude needs to be for a woman to chose to cut him off from his own kids
And he did it twice.
A two—time loser


So yes.
Run

[OneViewpoint]

No, not a red flag at all. This guy has father of the year potential written all over him. He'll be there when you need him... to knock you up and disappear.

[FunkyMonkee]

He has 2 mothers? What'd they do, take turns being pregnant with him?

[AndrésC64]

How do you know that they ghosted him and it wasn't the other way around?

[msc545]

Your stupidity in having to even ask this is more of a red flag...

[fish5505_87]

Umm, if what you say is true, yeah, giant red flag!

[Apple1996]

I cannot think of a bigger red flag tbh

[jahaims]

It's crazy you have to ask

[slatyb]

Yes, not is.

[Danny_dan92]

Probably

[Anonymous]

Obviously

[In_Trance]

Duh...