His ex is prego with his 5 kid and every time I see her I get so depressed , I have to hold back tears Because I feel like he values her more than he dose me . I also feel like when she first has the baby I'm not going to get to see him Because he's going to be helping her with the baby.
Before she got prego he use to talk to me all the time about having kids and randomly bringing it up, I never thought he was serious but I liked the fact that he did , and no he says that 5 kids is enough, but if I wanted then he would do whatever I wanted Because I'm his girl . But that kinda makes me feel like he would only give that to me to make me happy , like he doesn't want them with me but will just give me a baby so I stay happy. He has brought me getting prego a few times but I didn't really take him seriously Because I don't want to over think it.
He just confuses me Because sometimes he will bring up me getting prego then I say something jokingly back and he just says 'your not ready' . I mean I know that that's why I said in a few years we can bring that subject back up and talk about it seriously.
SO I have a few questions to guys and gals in some what similar situations. One since the guy already has kids are his kids that he has with his current girl hold as much value as the first kids? Do you get a little jealous when you see him or her with their baby moma/baby daddy and their kid that they had together? Anny suggestions? I'm so confused on this he's giving me so many mixed signals.
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