Why is my mom being difficult about the a/c?

[Anastacia1989]

Next week I saw in the news that it may be going up to 30 degrees…. I addressed it to my mom and all she kept saying was “ok”.
She knows the heat makes me sick and that I work early mornings as well. She was getting mad when I was asking her about the air and she said that I “interrogate” her anytime I come home- which isn’t true. I’m allowed to speak up if it’s something health related and I only asked her once about it. She’s the one that only says “ok”. she also doesn’t pay attention when groceries are needed at home and she’s always on her phone.
She always makes a big deal when the window is open as well and claims she’s cold but the house is never cold. It’s always “warm” or room temperature.
She then proceeded to say that I should go stay with my boyfriend until she puts it on if I don’t like it.

what should I do about Thai situation? Isn’t she being unreasonable?

She’s Being unreasonable

Other - expalin.

[Finchie40]

Because you both have different body temperatures so the both of you are never Going to agree on it. Some how some way try to compromise with her about it , or make your plans to move in with your boyfriend

[andreasderjuengere]

She has issues that are somewhere else.

Perhaps she's concerned about the added costs?)

But she hesitates to say it (whatever it is) directly.

[red-lipstick-girl]

The weather in Türkiye is currently 40 degrees and I am cooking.

[EmmaMary]

35 years of age and still living at home! smh

[Anastacia1989]

Ya it’s cuz if finances otherwise I would totally be out lol

[EmmaMary]

Doesn't your boyfriend have his own place? If so, why not take the plunge and go and live together?

[Anastacia1989]

Ya he has his own place and we’ve been together for 3 years but we’re not yet engaged

[Anastacia1989]

Secondly I’ve only been at my job for 2 months so far

[EmmaMary]

What has not being engaged got to do with anything?

I lived with my then boyfriend for almost five years before becoming engaged to him... We've now been married seven years this coming November.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Staximus]

"I’m allowed to speak up if it’s something health related and I only asked her once about it." This sentence bothers me. It shows your mom is a domineering control freak and you need to move out.

[Staximus]

And 30°C degrees is only 86° F. Stop being a big baby and just open the windows. I unloaded a moving van by myself during the summer in Arizona and it was 115°F.

[Staximus]

Go live with your boyfriend already

[RandomUser1000]

If you don't live with her, then wouldn't it be less of a problem?
If you could do something else together when you visit then sit at home?

[exitseven]

I do not know what your economic situation is but maybe she is trying to avoid a big electric bill.

[jahaims]

You're a full grown adult halfway to death. Stop relying on mommy for everything

[seeyounexttuesday]

You're 35? Time to get your own place and set the AC where you want it.

[alice55]

You're the one being unreasonable you're 35 if you're not happy go live alone.

[Anastacia1989]

She always does as my sister asks and wants but when I express my needs it gets brushed off, so how I am I being the unreasonable one? She knows the heat bothers me

[alice55]

You're 35 go live it's her house she can do watahver she want into it if she prefer your sister that's her right and if she don't want to listen to you that's her right too as it's her house.

[Anonymous]

Most moms want it hot at home. My mom always set the AC to 80°F; as that was comfortable to her.