So I moved out in 2016. As you do when you grow up. I met a great guy we then had a son. I have two older siblings so I am youngest last to leave the nest.
My mom is married so I felt she would be completely fine when I left. Which she was. 4 years after I left home. She retired due to ill health. She has disabilities that she has made worse a does nothing to correct. Despite being told by doctors she needs to lose weight.
She told my sister that she has not been intimate with her partner since 2019 but she wants to an he doesn’t. She has let herself go so to speak. I feel she blames me for it. I am only one that stands up to her foolishness. She’s tried to ruin my relationship.
she's successfully ruined my sibling bonds. She meets up with me to talk about my siblings lives instead of encouraging us to connect. An reminds me I wasn’t included so isolates me often. Slags off my partner like a jealous ex.
If I do something without her she is bitter an angry yet when she does something it’s ok. Makes no effort with my fiancé but makes effort with my sisters boyfriend of just a year. An purposely talks highly of him. I feel like she saps my energy an dumps things on me to de stress.
Last week she said she wanted to go for lunch I did and she just talks about peoples lives never her own. We met at 12:10 pm by 2:12pm she got rid of me as moments before I said something truthful about her son. She even messaged me she says by mistake but i feel she went out of her way to say hey yous ok just had to town for a few bits going home now.
Purposely trying to make me feel unimportant so can only imagine how she feels inside to do this.
She played it off with oh sorry that was for Susie. Literally a minute after sending it she said sorry mistake. She makes out oh my old brain but I feel she knows what she’s doing it’s all an act.
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