Search Results: he stares at me and then ignores me

What is going through his mind, please help?

There is a guy at my gym who stares and smiles. I was too shy to smile back and would quickly look away. He often found me looking over. His friend would even grin in my direction on seeing me. Then the guy started to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would another woman give me a dirty look then compliment me?

Girl at the gym was giving me the classic catty stare down at the gym. I completely ignored her (and no she wasn’t sexually attracted to me she was giving me extremely dirty looks) then a few minutes later came and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He acts like he hates me now, and I don’t know what I did. Is there a way to fix this?

I am super shy around this guy at work. I find him attractive but I don’t know him and I don’t even know whether he’s single. I don’t even know if I still like him but something about the way he acts makes it hard to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you tell a guy you're not interested?

He kept staring at me in class. I ignored him when he tried saying hi to me in the halls. I started wearing a fake wedding band. Then he tried asking me if i wanted to mess around. I was like WTF. how do you tell a guy to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why he has stopped looking at me?

My classmate often looked at me for a whole year. He also sometimes used to finger his hair while looking. I'm pretty simple looking girl so I just ignored the fact that a guy might find me intriguing. That staring game...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Do these people hate my kind?

Just trying to figure out why Mexican men and guys are so rude to black girls like me. I'm not attractive to them but a lot of times they will give me a dirty look no matter how old they are. I work at a retail store and...

whydidyoukick

Xper 2 Age: 26

This girl what's she doing ?

We did use to stare into each others eyes a lot and her pupils dilate She trys to ignore me and avoids me purposely talks to others When I bump into her alone she says and hi she breaths to compose herself After a while...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls behaviour can someone help?

We started and used to stare into each others eyes a lot and her pupils dilate She ignores me and avoids me purposely talks to others When I bump into her alone say hi she breaths to compose herself Since then When I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Whats with this guy?

OK so I met a guy in February we got talking quiet a bit. Decided to go for a bite to eat and cinema. We got on great. He then went quiet on the messages. So I messaged him asking if everything was OK. He said he...

Tammy2510

Xper 3 Age: 39

Dating

Girl seems interested but is a VERY slow texter?

I met this girl through a mutual friend and later matched on a dating app, we go to the same college. When we first matched, she asked me out but it’s a month from now because we both have finals. We took the conversation...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl shows attraction, then it seems like I become invisible to her? Then she shows signs again?

Met young girl (19) at the gym/ I'm tall, fit, look good. Some times we would lock eyes, then some smiles. So I decided to talk to her before the gym closed for public holiday. We joked and I teased a little. We took...

ThingAsksThings

Xper 2 Age: 34

Girl isn’t replying to texts but seeks me out IRL?

Met a girl through a mutual friend in college then later matched on a dating app. She asked me out on a date after finals, and we decided to meet in college when we both have free time. There are many green flags: 1....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he ghost me? do you think he actually liked me?

I was in a situationship with a guy who was seeing other girls, but I didn't say anything. I asked him if he was seeing other people even though I knew but he said no. whenever we hung out we would always cuddle, watch a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Why does a guy play childish ‘make her jealous’ games when he chooses another girl over you?

I mean he liked and flirted with us both. He thought I rejected him many months previously as I didn’t realise him asking me out was a date per se. He started dating this other girl and even still sent mixed signals for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to understand this behaviour?

A lady she ignored me and says hello to everyone else even people Im with on purposely When I bumped into her and she faced the other way looked at the wall and said hi to the next person past me And when we bump into...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

If my ex still loves me or if she ever did love me?

Met this girl at work a year ago. We started working together everyday. During the work day we had an amazing time but after work I was blocked. Judging from her difficult past I new it would be hard to show her that I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Understanding womens behaviour?

There is a girl and she ignored me and says hello to everyone else even people Im with purposely Then I bumped into her and she faced the other way looked at the wall and said hi to the next person past me Then when we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would a girl ignore you and avoid?

And stare at you all the time and try get you alone to stare from distance but do nothing For weeks on end? Then get all nervous avoid you when you pass her and look at the wall

Anonymous

(36-45)