Why does he listen to my conversations with others?

[Anonymous]

He teases me, stares at me, has made suggestive remarks in the past, he tries to make me jealous with his girlfriend. Even when he’s with her he’s eavesdropping on my conversations. But ultimately he started dating her. We went on one date last year and the way I handled it he took it as a rejection I guess as he told me. Anyway a few months later he met her but was still flirting with me. But he knew I liked him and he said “we’re friends right? I don’t want to hurt you” and since then he obviously has repeatedly hurt me by messing with my head and paying me attention in front of her. He even said in front of her that dating her was a lie and winked at me. He always says things to get under my skin and make me jealous. What he says and what he does contradict themselves. But even so these days we don’t text or talk much. I ignore him at social gatherings but he’s still trying to get my attention. What’s going on in his head?

[Anonymous]

Based on what you have described, it seems like this person may be interested in you but is currently in a relationship with someone else. He may be trying to make you jealous or seek attention from you because he enjoys the attention and validation he receives from you.

However, it is not healthy or respectful for someone to play games with your emotions or try to manipulate you in this way. It is important to set clear boundaries with him and communicate your feelings honestly and directly. Let him know that his behavior is not acceptable and that you will not tolerate being treated in this way.

It is also important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and consider whether this person is someone who is worth your time and energy. It may be helpful to distance yourself from him and focus on building healthy relationships with people who treat you with respect and kindness.

[GreekLorrd]

Based on what you've shared, it seems like this person is playing games with you and is not being honest with their intentions. They may enjoy the attention and the power they have over you by making you feel jealous or confused. It's also possible that they have unresolved feelings for you, but are not sure how to handle them, especially since they are in a relationship with someone else.

It's important to set boundaries with this person and make it clear that their behavior is not acceptable. If they continue to make you uncomfortable or hurt you, it may be necessary to cut ties with them for your own well-being. It's important to prioritize your own mental and emotional health in any relationship or interaction, and to surround yourself with people who treat you with respect and kindness.

[Anonymous]

Lollllllllll

[Asker]

Why are you laughing?

[Opinion Owner]

You're a joke!! He is too lmaoooool

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Look in the mirror beautiful
You're just a conquest to him
All you did was made him feel you had no chance.
Leave the LOSER alone. He does things to hurt you. Can you imagine if you were actually in a relationship with him? He'd ruin you. And then you've been complaining about him for years OMG you're so stuck. Wake up!!
There's a hottie way better than this guy who wants you and won't be a little bitch about it!! Go and have fun. Go be with people who won't play mind games. You deserve so much more. I wish you could see thay

[Opinion Owner]

That***