Why does he always walk by when I’m talking to someone else?

[Anonymous]

I can tell this guy listens to my conversations with others and seems to find me pleasant but we barely talk and he is married with kids.

[fafylone]

Don't mess with married men. Find yours.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t do anything I’m just wondering why he acts this way since I have no experience with men at all.

[fafylone]

You must been overanalyze his actions. Whatever his reason that should your less concerns.

[Asker]

How should I act around him then in your opinion? I don’t know if I should avoid him or be nice and join him for lunch or coffee since he always asks me

[fafylone]

Don't join for a coffee or lunch with him alone. If he start conversations then make it short. Avoid him. Don't initiate the conversation & be respectful obviously but don't be get alone with him. That's my advice for you.

[Asker]

But how do you know he doesn’t just like me in a platonic way?

[fafylone]

He is married why he would ask to take you out for a coffee or lunch? He maybe cheating his wife. Entertain him or not that's your life.

[Asker]

Cause that’s what coworkers do …

[fafylone]

You like him. I understand. Have a nice day.

[Asker]

Do you have lunch alone always? I keep declining but people consider me unfriendly or stuck up for this

[fafylone]

Not with married men. If with other along him then fine. I have a standard for myself. You like him, stopping denying it. You keep giving excuses. Not hanging out with him will make you unfriendly? You must be kidding me.

[Asker]

I don’t know it’s just the company culture. I only work with men and all of them are married with kids

[Anonymous]

He's nosy and maybe jealous too.

[Asker]

Why is he jealous if he doesn’t like me?

[Opinion Owner]

Then he’s just nosy.