Why do people monitor everything I do (eavesdropping, pocket watching, staring, following me around)?

Im introverted and don’t talk much unless it’s necessary or I like someone. For some reason several people in my neighborhood and at my workplace keep tabs on me. People turn around to watch me walk and blatantly stare or go silent when they hear me talking to someone else, try to „accidentally“ bump into me to spy on me and watch me from behind drinking coffee.

Same thing with my neighbors in my dorm. Since im not particularly interested in them and also overheard one of them calling me a bitch to her friends (we never talked at all and she doesn’t know shit about me) and later complaining I don’t talk to them I don’t strike up conversations with them and keep to myself. Now they are being passive aggressive by walking to the kitchen when I’m there (even if it’s just 2 minutes) and pretend they are busy doing something there.

The girl living right next to me always opens her door when I’m taking on the phone to listen to my conversations. Also when I go downstairs to pick up a delivery she does the same until I come back. She and another neighbor also several times followed me around the neighborhood and smiled at me from afar.

Wtf is wrong with those people? Why do they expect me to go up to them and socialize when they themselves never tried to even say hello? Is it so hard to understand that not everyone fawns over them and wants to make their acquaintance. I can tell that we wouldn’t vibe so I don’t go out of my way trying to make friends, what is so wrong about that?

Why do people monitor everything I do (eavesdropping, pocket watching, staring, following me around)?
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