Why does the guy I really like think I’m playing games with him? When I actually do like him and care about him and now he's mad and ignoring me and idky?

[Anonymous]

he acted like he liked me and we kissed and people were telling me oh he's a fuckboy nd a player but i dndt believe them bc he's not he's one of the good ones and now my friend txts him nd says dont hurt her she's my best friend u make her happy dont hurt her nd he gets mad nd goes ok if u think im gonna hurt her then ill stop talking to her and the next day he's ignoring me he won't talk to me and we had a huge fight at school in front of everyone nd he was yelling at me and i was crying and yelling and he kept saying i stopped tlking to u before u stopped tlking to me nd im like can u listen to me y would i stop tlking to u if i like u nd he's like cuz every fucking girl does that nd im like im not every girl nd he goes u know deep down u were gonna stop tlking to me every girl says the same thing nd im like can u just listen to me nd explain y ur feelin like this? nd he just kept yelling this conversations over i dont wanna tlk about it and now he completely acts like i dont exist nd he doesn't care when im like here crying nd thinkng he still likes me bc y would he be all worried about what my mom thinks of him y would he kiss me nd hold my hand nd be so nice if he was a fuckboy when he's not he's sweet nd nice nd funny and an awesome person nd i rlly fell for him i broke up with my boyfriend for him if i dndt like him y would i do that? now he ignores me nd when people ask what happen between us he goes i dont wanna tlk about it he acts all happy nd here feeling like a loser nd he's telling people i was playing games and telling my friends everything when i only told my 2 bffs bc i rlly liked him nd i was happy with him and now i dont know what to do he says one thing about this but i feel like there's something behind this bc my friend would be like he rlly likes u he kept telling me to tlk to u nd ask u if u liked anyone so im so confused nd hurt i just want another chance with him... please help? :(

[DeadShot619]

It's hard if he won't let u talk to him. But u need to say to him that u weren't playing n u really like him n wanna work out whatever is going on. If he won't let u talk then maybe just text that to him. He should read it. U could also try talking to his friends, if u can convince them then they may b able to get through to him. I can't guarantee that'll work but that's my best idea. Hopefully it helps 😊 good luck

[Kipper]

Perhaps he had a bad experience in the past with a girl trying to manipulate him. Be patient and give it time.

[Asker]

yea i guess nd like now people r tellin me he's tryin to make me jealous by being with this other girl who theyre saying is really ugly nd that he was also dating her another girl nd talking to me so i guess he can't not have a girl in his life for one second so he dumps one nd goes on the next one nd now talking to me like nothing happened and asking all jealous like if im talking to this other guy

[dede_g_10]

Honestly if he is going to talk complete shit about you infront of everyone he is an asshole. You deserve way better than that he should have way more trust in you. You did nothing to this guy he just has trust issues. I went through the same thing and ik it sucks but he is not worth your time. Don't feel bad at least you know that you did nothing wrong

[Asker]

thnx but now he's dating this other chubby ugly girl nd like grabs her ass that she doesn't have nd kisses her right in front of me nd now he's asked like 3 times if im talking to this other guy he prob thinks im over it now when im not i still have feelings nd care about him but he walk up to me nd tlks to me like nothing ever happened i just feel like i was different from all the other girls he dated yea i heard rumors but i dndt believe them i wasn't scared by them i felt like he actually caught feelings for me nd he felt like i was gonna hurt him first so thats maybe y he wanted to end it nd said he wanted to stop anything b4 it happend like i was gonna leave him 4 someone else when i wasn't everyones telling me he's tryin to make me jealous nd i just dnd know

[dede_g_10]

If I was you I would just move on he is a jerk to that infront of you with her find someone who will love you and have trust in you

[CaliforniaMe]

He's using reverse psychology to make you do all the work

[Anonymous]

I will try reading this when you try spelling shit correctly

[Asker]

it was to make it shorter asswipe