OK so I met a guy in February we got talking quiet a bit. Decided to go for a bite to eat and cinema. We got on great. He then went quiet on the messages. So I messaged him asking if everything was OK. He said he preferred to be on his own. I said thats fine not a problem. We carried on messaging everyday as friends. Then out the blue he messaged saying fancy meeting for a coffee so I did. Everything was great. The messages we were having was like what shifts you working this week, what u been up to. Stuff like that
So anyway after meeting for coffee once again he went quite on the messages. So messaged again explaining he had gone quiet. He said sorry just been really busy. Fair enough.
He then went to Scotland for 2 weeks. The first week we were messaging very flirty messages. He was constantly messaging me that first week. Then the second week he completely went quite. He didn't have phone signal for 2 days then he would be online read my messages and ignore or just completely ignore them. So I sent him quite a blunt message saying I don't really know whats going on with you and explained how I felt about him going hot and cold with me. His response was we are clearly two different people.
Anyway he got back from Scotland. Now when we were talking he already knew what shifts I was working. So the one late shift I was working he decided to bring another lass into my work place and sit right near the kitchen where I was working. This was about 9pm at night and the restaurant was dead so he could have sat anywhere or even upstairs.
Anyway the other day I went to Costa for a cuppa and sat in the window. He decided to pull up at the lights and stare at me while he was waiting for the lights to change. When I questioned him about it he said he was looking at the 2 mobility scooters that were on the path ( yeah ok) and he didn't see me. I have a lot of male friends and if I mention them to him he ignores my messages. Someone help me understand this weird situation
So anyway after meeting for coffee once again he went quite on the messages. So messaged again explaining he had gone quiet. He said sorry just been really busy. Fair enough.
He then went to Scotland for 2 weeks. The first week we were messaging very flirty messages. He was constantly messaging me that first week. Then the second week he completely went quite. He didn't have phone signal for 2 days then he would be online read my messages and ignore or just completely ignore them. So I sent him quite a blunt message saying I don't really know whats going on with you and explained how I felt about him going hot and cold with me. His response was we are clearly two different people.
Anyway he got back from Scotland. Now when we were talking he already knew what shifts I was working. So the one late shift I was working he decided to bring another lass into my work place and sit right near the kitchen where I was working. This was about 9pm at night and the restaurant was dead so he could have sat anywhere or even upstairs.
Anyway the other day I went to Costa for a cuppa and sat in the window. He decided to pull up at the lights and stare at me while he was waiting for the lights to change. When I questioned him about it he said he was looking at the 2 mobility scooters that were on the path ( yeah ok) and he didn't see me. I have a lot of male friends and if I mention them to him he ignores my messages. Someone help me understand this weird situation
