I was in a situationship with a guy who was seeing other girls, but I didn't say anything. I asked him if he was seeing other people even though I knew but he said no. whenever we hung out we would always cuddle, watch a movie, I slept over, and the 4th or 5th time i hung out with him he made the first move. He even told his friends that I was cute. i broke it off weeks after because I thought he was using me. but then days after I broke it off, I went up to him to get closure. He said he can't commit cause he like multiple girls and he has trust issues because he got cheated on in his past. I asked him why he lied about other girls he said he didn't know how I would take it. After talking, he tells me he did like me and wasn't using me and then he basically made a move and we made out and then hugged me. He wanted me to talk to him the next day so I texted him. I didn't get a reply. I also called him but he didn't answer and never called me back. Couple of weeks later he unfollowed me on insta but never blocked my number even though i tried to texted him couple of times when he ghosted me. Every time I see him he always tries to look at me from afar, but doesn't make eye contact up close or ignore me up close. Before he looked at me but then when i looked at him he quickly looked away. I told him before to get his hat and jacket because I have it and he told me to keep it and that he doesn't want it (he probably forgot about it). Weeks later I found out he is dating the girl I always saw him with every thursdays. I never knew about it till my friend told me. She would always post about him in social media and she has his initial in her bio but he never posts anything about her and doesn't have an initial in his bio. He probably doesn't want people to know. One time I walked into a party house and he was inside by the door and he was walking towards the door when it was opening but when I walked in he stopped walking and stared at me but I just kept walking away.
Why did he ghost me? do you think he actually liked me?
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why did he ghost me right after us talking and him making a move
