Search Results: is marriage the goal

My goal is to remain a virgin before marriage, I only wanted to lose my virginity to my husband after marriage but my boyfriend wants sex. I started acting arrogant and stripped in front of him fully nude, I was so confident he will be turned off by my pubes and he will not want sex. Instead, he finds my naked self a big turn on like HOW? In the end I lost my virginity and he even said he wants to do it with me again. HOW IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY SENSE!!! I’m going anonymous because I didn’t want people harassing me after this question. My goal to remain a virgin is now out of the window! 😩 My boyfriend even called me an idiot for assuming he will deny sex after me stripping naked! I remembered saying to him once I was nude.

Me: “take a good look be turned off by my naked self!”

boyfriend: “you’re such a idiot, how are you gonna fix my erected dick, huh?”

Me: “I’m very sorry I didn’t mean to turn you on”

after that I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and I was very surprised.

How would you feel if society is a vain world that (esp men) tells you ''You're only useful for beauty and youth, nothing else''? Those aren't skills and it tells me nothing about what you really like about me as a person or if you'll have kids with me and stay with me till old age.

They keep selling magazine about fashion models, old guys only with girls in their 20-30's, stories about men that divorced after 20 years of marriage just to replace their wives with a much younger woman, etc. So basically a wife would have to find a magic formula to stay young forever or delay the aging process. He's asking for something impossible. Meanwhile making more money and being successful is a possible goal (an actual skill), staying youthful forever is impossible.

Then several guys keep on wondering why do we get offended if they ask about our weight and only physical aspects questions or why do we focus too much on that. Because you're the ones saying that's the only thing we're useful for.

Scenario:
Adam can't get casual sex easily so instead he pretends to seek a relationship. He searches for a girl looking for a serious relationship, lovebombs her so much (tells her ''We're soulmates, I love you forever'', etc), fakes it all and even lies about having a future with her, lies about wanting marriage and kids. He continues the act for so long.

The girl falls for it and he has all the sex he wanted.

Isn't lying, misleading girls and faking it all just to get sex (ruining the girl's innocence, dreams and goals, wasting her time) because that's the only single way you can get sex (basically you suck... you have to lie about what the same thing she wants to get sex) from a girl still soooo low?