Search Results: long distance ex

Should I tell him he’s out of my league, he can do better and move on?

I’m 27, have never talked to a guy, a virgin and clueless on what I’m doing, so any input is appreciated. I’ve been talking to a guy long distance for a couple months now. He asked for my number a couple weeks ago and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do you stay faithful to your partner? Also, do I have to tell future partners I cheated on my ex?

I was in a 6 year relationship. He cheated on me with his ex twice emotionally (I had to get it out of me) and then I cheated on him with three guys the year after (one just had a crush, one I sent sus pics, last one I...

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Why does she care if I spend time with my ex or write about it even though we are not together?

This situation is strange. I have never met this woman and we interact only online. She is a content creator and it is not adult content From the start she has told me she misses me and that she likes me. I initially told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

This situation is strange. I have never met this woman and we interact only online. She is a content creator and it is not adult content From the start she has told me she misses me

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Family & Friends

Why is my bestfriend being weird about my boyfriend?

i broke off my relationship of three years with my toxic ex boyfriend two months ago. it was really hard for me to get out of that shit hole. i was so happy and free but my bestfriend, all she could say was- 'youl get...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

My boyfriend said this to me?

Me and my boyfriend were talking about exes. In the past he told me his relationship felt one sided and that his ex girlfriend made the relationship feel like he was doing all the work. Now tonight he has a conversation...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

He still sees his ex in groups or alone, without warning and one day he sent me a snap from her house, normal? ?

I found a message from last week in which he said to her 《I remember you being “wow” too》 he doesn't know that I went through his phone ( that's the second time , first time I couldn't take any evidence ) and he gets...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What’s something that makes you feel proud of yourself?

I just read a question that reminded me of this and I kind of felt proud of myself. So, when I met my ex, he was determined to stay a virgin and was planning to go to Tibet to become a Buddhist Monk very soon. He met me...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Relationships

Do men love selfish and manipulative women?

I have been thinking, I had two female friends. They would often tell me their relationship details 1. First one told me, she would make scenes if her boyfriend didn’t buy her the best things or didn’t give her enough...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think I should send my ex a song I think explains how I feel?

it’s kind of a long story and it would be too long to go into details of our relationship, but most importantly it was a really bittersweet yet toxic but we were trying to work on relationship, and it was hard because it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is he interested?

My ex and I broke up after a three month long distance this summer. Right after the break up we went back to being friends. It's been a month since the break up and we go to the gym every morning together, have breakfast...

Juiceboxbrat

Xper 5 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

My ex deleted his instagram?

so my ex and I dated for 3 years and broke up bc we couldn’t do long distance anymore. Both us of kept in contact after a year of no contact and were friends with benefits, just after a few months I told him we can no...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, What are the chances of my ex boyfriend coming back after no contact?

Lalabee4

Xper 1 Age: 30

I have an Anxious Preocuppied Attachment style and he is a fearful avoidant, both 28. We had been together for 3 years before he broke up with me almost a month ago while celebrating

I have an Anxious Preocuppied Attachment style and he is a fearful avoidant, both 28. We had been together for 3 years before he broke up with me almost a month ago while celebrating our anniversary / my birthday. The month prior, he had moved to a new city due to being transferred at his job, so new workplace as well. His company gave him 2 weeks to move his whole life over there and he had to do the move while still going to work so he was highly stressed. The city is about 1.5hrs away by train from where I am (and he also was) and I have plans to go there next year for work, so we were thinking of going there together. So a long distance relationship would have been temporary and we would have seen each other once a month in person. He reassured me that everything would be okay and that we would absolutely make it work.

When he came back to our city a week after moving/starting his new job (for the celebration), he looked very stressed. His work week was hectic and he’d get home at around 9pm every day and go straight to sleep (about one message a day). At the hotel, where we were celebrated, he seemed to be in a terrible mood so I asked him what was wrong a bunch of times and also mentioned our future (moving in together eventually, which we’ve talked about before) and he said he didn’t know and couldn’t give me the answer that I wanted. He then came up with a bunch of excuses about needing to focus on himself and his career and not having the bandwidth to be in a relationship anymore. That he couldn’t cherish me. There was no changing his mind. I left the hotel and went back home.

The next day I called to make up and talk again but he was firm in his decision so we each apologized and thanked each other and that was it. He deleted me from IG and hasn’t reached out since. I have been in NC. I’m extremely hurt and am wondering if this is temporary or permanent? He broke up with me once before but came back after 20 mins apologizing. What should I do?

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Break Up & Divorce

What does it mean when your ex leave you on delivered and his snap score, go high?

Me and my ex were first each other. And I still have feelings for him, I told him that I still have feelings for him, but he says he’s busy for his job, and doesn’t wanna girlfriend. we broken up twice. The last time we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex-girlfriend is curious about who I’m doing things with, still texts me and wants to hang out, but she’s dating someone new. What’s going on here?

My ex-gf and I have been best friends for over 20 years and have dates off and on in that time. About 11 months ago we started a long distance relationship for about three months and then I moved home and we moved in...

SeanGtrGuy42

Xper 2 Age: 45

Guy's Behavior

Why would my ex act this way?

So long story short, weeks after our break up we run into each other and (I’m blind so I wasn’t wearing my glasses) I was staring off into the distance until I noticed that a guy was looking at me and then sort of trying...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Girls, My girlfriend said she needed time to herself and has now blocked me?

Ok so she and I have been together for 2.5 weeks now so still rather young relationship and it’s only been long distance. And she’s not the most talkative over text but she doesn’t cheat or anything like that she’s loyal....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Why is my ex boyfriend keep coming back into my life?

It’s been almost 7 years, it was hard to let go of him in the past years. And finally my feelings for him are fading and I didn’t think about our memories like I used too. But he keeps coming back always trying to call...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How could I stop thinking about getting him back?

I need help I was in a relationship with a guy at university Then he traveled to Europe and we remained in a long-distance relationship, then he left me after our engagement for another girl !! I was waiting for him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Why does she think I am angry at her when I’m clearly not? This happened after I posted updates relating to my ex?

We’ve been talking a lot but it’s long distance. I do like her and we’re close and things seem good but she has strange moments. For instance I was posting things about my ex wanting me back and how I’m single and she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We’ve been talking a lot but it’s long distance. I do like her and we’re close and things seem good but she has strange moments. For instance I was posting things about my ex wanting

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Education & Career

How do I handle this situation?

My ex long distance boyfriend lives in a city and I was just given a great job opportunity in the same city. It would be a big move. But over double my current salary with the chance to move remote after a while. Our...

Anonymous

(30-35)