Girls, My girlfriend said she needed time to herself and has now blocked me?

[Anonymous]

Ok so she and I have been together for 2.5 weeks now so still rather young relationship and it’s only been long distance. And she’s not the most talkative over text but she doesn’t cheat or anything like that she’s loyal. But in one of these silent periods I found out from one of her friends that her ex had started texting her again. I asked more about it to her friend, and with minimal evidence of anything I confronted her in a way which I shouldn’t have. It came off as distrusting and I realize now that I was a complete idiot for doing it. After the confrontation she explained it all to me and told me that me not fully trusting that she loved me and wanted me really hurt her. Now on top of this she has a lot going on in her life. So she told me that she just “needs some time rn” and after that she blocked me. She doesn’t talk to other guys outside of close friends and family. And when asked about relationship she says she’s taken by me. So like what do y’all think? I know I gotta give her time to heal I’m aware of that. But roughly how long can I expect this period of being blocked to last for?

[BasedBaeBecca]

Well first of all, I think you need to trust her. If she says she is taken by you and doesn't talk to other men then it should be fine.

Second of all, if she says that she needs time, she needs time. I would give her maybe a maximum of two weeks! But then you can say to her that you are there for her and you are happy to hear back from her. Then leave it be again.

She probably needs to process and think. And that is completely fine, don't worry yourself too much. It will be okay!

[_Maya_]

However long it takes her. There is no one in the world that can give you an exact timeframe as to when she might unblock you. Only she can decide that. Not that you have a choice in the matter but just give her time and space like you are. Use that to reflect on what happened. I suspect you already have but there is no harm in thinking about the situation and how to better yourself. We all make mistakes. Hopefully this isn't one that sends the relationship of a cliff.

[HelpfulWoman]

I would take that as a break up, Blocking is a pretty weird thing to do if it was just "time to herself". So she's either weird as and giving you a red flag, or is ending it herself.

[Anonymous]

3 out of the last 4 posts on here have all been about texting, and they all have been big fails. What does that tell you?

Knowing people on here, probably nothing. 🤦‍♀️