She says she needs time for herself. What does this mean, & what can I do about it?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend & I recently broke up. We have broken up several times before but this time it felt pretty serious. She says she needs time for herself. She says she's still madly in love with me. She also suffers from depression & emotional problems. We were together for almost 2 years & we lost our virginity to each other. I've tried texting her & asking her to come over to talk but she says we'll talk when it doesn't hurt her anymore. What does this mean, & what can I do about it?

[Anonymous]

That sucks bro, just hang in there. Honestly, when it comes to a situation like this, just text her or try to call her every few days. Because she may be going something really bad and you keep trying to talk to her may make her push you away. So just be cool and ever couple of day say "Hey babe...just wanted to say hi and hope everything is ok". Show that you care but give her her space.

If she is still madly in love with you, she will be back. Just show her that you care about her but in a very cool way.

[twinkie888]

aww that's sad. she might think you don't care about her. I wish my boyfriend would text me cause we just got in a fight. I also suffer from depression and emotion and it sounds like she needs someone to care about her right now. why does she need time for herself?